I was nothing but nice to him! I would have taken the shirt off my back and given it to him. He unfortunetely wanted to find someone "better" He then went on to date some beautiful but exteremely materialistic girls who sucked him dry. A few days ago he called and was apologizing on his hands and knees and kept going on and on about how he was an idiot not to see how wonderful I was and that if I got back with him he would treat me like a queen. Should I give him a chance or just move on?
2006-10-30 02:04:24 · 17 answers · asked by Severina G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...if you put your hand on the stove burner and you get burned...how many more times will you do this in order to discover that it is not a good idea?
2006-10-30 02:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I:I've been that guy. Hell I am that guy. Do whatever you feel is best for you. He will probably do it again though. Did he treat you really nice other than infidelity? I think infidelity is mostly natural in men. Pick a guy that makes you feel good and secure, I bet if you let him play around he'd marry you haha. Sorry that's my confused bit of my psyche. I wanna be nice but I don't wanna be some sucker who cant meet cute girls and is miserable.
If you look a lil older you might find someone ready to settle down. If he's apologizing he prolly did something wrong. Let him suffer, hell learn some kind of kharmic lesson.
And you can meet someone who you can respect and love.
Flip a coin I havent a clue really. Maybe he learned his lesson. Listen to your conscience, your female intuition or whatever. Good luck.
2006-10-30 02:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your place. I had a guy who I would have given my life for and he took my viginianity. He desided that he wanted to get a better girlfriend. After that all went down the drain he came back to me. Being young and not knowing any better I took him back. He did the same thing later now I our realtionship. I am better off now because I have a great guy who loves me and just me. I think that you should move on because that are more guys in this world and that IS a "better" one who will Never Break Your Heart.
2006-10-30 02:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by miss.lodge_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it is tempting, and I'm sure it is...I would move on. Things could go good for a while but what if he ends up breaking your heart again...do you want to go through all that hurt & pain again. You have survived the break up and moved forward before & I'm sure you have gotten stronger from the situation. If you go back, he'll know that all he has to do is a little begging and you are all his again at his "convenience". You've lived & learned...now move on and find somebody who won't "ever" break your heart. It's his loss & he knows it now...what comes around, goes around. Stay strong & good luck!
2006-10-30 02:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by godsmacksun23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four years is a long time for growth and maturity to happen. It could well be that he's a new man. I believe in second chances. I also believe that trust is earned. Obviously you still have feelings for him so I'm inclined to say give him a second chance. BUT TAKE IT SLOW!!! If he's for real he will understand and he will work to earn your love and trust. If he is not, he'll show himself and you will know for sure before you are in too deep.
2006-10-30 02:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First... Do you love him... can you forgive him... my ex did the same thing... I didn't take him back because I was already remarried... but him being out there and getting to see the types of women thats out there to choose from... made him realize what a prize I was... the jokes on him and the decision is yours... doesn't it feel good to see the tables turned on him... you have some soul searching to do...take you time... good luck
2006-10-30 02:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consistently rememeber age would not count. ignore approximately different guy or woman's complaint. Age isn't the hyndrance for romance. Love is each and every thing. So, greater useful concentration between you and that boy, and not those trashtalkers.
2016-11-26 19:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by yarrington 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him a chance if you think you really like this guy from before. Just let him know in no uncertain terms that you won't give him another chance and just take it very slow and be observant and any red flags pop up...don't let them slide.
2006-10-30 02:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl , once a thief always a thief .
Don't let him break your heart again .
Have more pride .
Give yourself the satisfaction to send him home .
2006-10-30 02:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been 4 years and you haven't moved on yet?
2006-10-30 02:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋