Ok theres this new guy in school i'm trying to get over a past love of mine so i have my eyes set on Josh the new boy. We were at a party saturday night and made out. But after that he ****** another girl after I left. I really want him but don't know what to do about him ******* my best friends lil sis.
2006-10-30 01:59:13 · 16 answers · asked by Kayla E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. You're not over your last boyfriend
2. You made out with a new guy
3. He screwed another girl after you left
Why do you want him?
TMD (Too Much Drama)l. Get a hold of yourself and show yourself some respect. You don't have to have a boyfriend, or move on to someone new because you don't have one. You have your eyes set on the new guy, but it doesn't even sound like you know him or even care. You just want to bounce to someone new. He's being a ho because he was with someone else after you left.
Come to your senses! You don't need a guy, you need to just sit down (alone!) and chill.
2006-10-30 02:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first suggestion is to be careful when playing with fire. This guy may be something to look at and may give you butterflies, but if he is screwing somebody else at a party after he makes out with you, he's already indicated he likes you for a certain thing but isnt intersted in "the whole package". My sense is that he's not intersted in a relationship and will at some point (even if for some reason become involved with you at that level), cheat on you as he seems not the type of guy to commit.
The real question isnt how do you get him, but rather, do you really want him to begin with. Are you in love with him or are you/would you truly be ok with "hooking up" with him only to find hes moved beyond you and looking for someone else to "hook-up with". You're gonna get hurt either way, the only question I have is how much are you willing to get hurt.
Suggestion from the old married guy.....wait for someone who isnt pre-occupied with his "head" and who is willing to commit his heart without even considering his penis, and you'll have yourself a relationship woth holding on to and fighting for!
2006-10-30 02:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by Iamco2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kayla, I really don't think you have any problem here. The next time you see Josh, invite him to a movie or show which you must have booked in advance. After the show, get yourself in a very secluded area - only the two of you. Then you're bound to get whatever level of ffuck you want from him - I can assure you about that. But my major concern here's that what follows after all the passion and infatuation that you're battling with right now.
Think about it. You may contact me through my profile for further discussions on this. cya.
2006-10-30 02:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets see he made out with you and screwed another girl. Why exactly do you want this guy? He sounds like a real winner. NOT! Find a nice guy that will treat you right. Good Luck
2006-10-30 02:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by smile4u 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sound slike you just need a rebound. Find some other guy to get your emotions for the last boyfriend put away. If you really like Josh, you won't use him for a rebound.
2006-10-30 02:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jon C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to be with a guy who makes out with you then has sex with someone else after you left. If you get with this guy what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you. I wouldn't even mess with this guy. You deserve someone better. Give yourself more time to get over your past love.
2006-10-30 02:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by melbow35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't Do anything about him-
let it go - he's obviously a player.
You may think he's "hot" n all. but what truly matters is if he's crazy about you. He wouldn't have risked loosing a good chance with you if he truly cared. It will only disrespect your self if you pursue him further after the knowledge that you now have. I would not go after this guy- you are better than that, aren't you?
2006-10-30 02:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a loser...why would you be interested in getting a guy like that....they are a dime a dozen and there is nothing special about him. He's a player. Stay away.
2006-10-30 02:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by hearts_and_thoughts_2003 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you had him first he could be ready for another very soon. Are you using protection? What would you have if you had him? What do you really want?
2006-10-30 02:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by jude2918 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him to go out, watch movies, and invite him for a dinner.
2006-10-30 02:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋