ok i have this girrl that ive went out with off and on for like 3 years and she says she loves me and wants to be with me but everytime we go out she dumps me for some dumb reason. but every time she asks me out i always say ya .....she told me that i was tha only guy that made her feel special...do u think she is worth it?
2006-10-30 01:58:01 · 11 answers · asked by kraziiwhiteboy04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her!
2006-10-30 01:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dealt with the same type of girl.
What you need to do is move on, find someone else and put this girl behind you.
You have to say no to her when she asks you to go out, even if it's "only as friends".
Do this long enough, and she may come around to appreciating you and want to move on to something a little more serious.
As it looks now, she's using you, she doesn't respect you, and she's playing you because you are always there for her. Don't play her game anymore, make her play yours.
2006-10-30 02:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by bill m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,she's not worth it. After 3 years, it's time to cut it off completely. It seems that the girl just doesn't know what she wants and in the mean time, your just left hanging in the wind. Get out of this situation now or you'll still be asking the same question after 4 years,5 years,6 years...trust me,you don't want that. there are plenty of girls out there. you want a girl that can make you happy for 3 years,not one that still has you asking questions about trust and loyalty after 3 years!
2006-10-30 02:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by RBNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This romance sounds one-sided to me...she shouldn't take advantage of the fact you are always around when she decides she needs you again. Tell her she makes you feel the Least Special, and see how she takes it. She sounds like she's just using you. If all you want is a friendship...fine, but I wouldn't consider this a "RELATIONSHIP".
2006-10-30 02:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by kick it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, she apparently doesn't have self-estem in herself and that's why she is a lil player leaving you for other guys, but when she get's dumped by then she comes to you...HELLo what does that tell you??
Leave her and find some one worth your time.
2006-10-30 02:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm she sounds like shes playing with your feelings thats not fair to use im dumping you as a method of " I cant seem to resolve my relationship problems." 3 years dude you must like the make up sex lol.
2006-10-30 02:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know if she is worth it but i wouldnt let myself be dumped then used again when she feels like it.
next time, dont be available when she needs you, only then will you see her for who she really is. she probably knows you will take her back. play the hard to get game next time.
2006-10-30 02:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves you she wouldn't dump you all the time. it's time to move on find someone better that treats you good. good luck xxxxxxxx
2006-10-30 02:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even a little bit. You shouldn't take her back anymore
2006-10-30 02:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by mkupgrl0015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope she's having you as a backup til the next best thing comes along.....wisen up!!!
2006-10-30 02:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by teaspoon520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋