They all think I'm a whore. I'm 16 but I only had sex with 4 different guys. The girls call me a slut and make fun of me all the time. Sometimes they even make me cry. My own friends are starting to hate me. My best friend won't talk to me because she thinks I slept with her boyfriend, but I slept with him BEFORE they started going out! Now she's spreading rumors how I'm trying to get pregnant so that my baby is born in the US and I can apply for citizenship. Nobody eats lunch with me expect for guys. I'm so sad, I didn't even go to school today. I don't know what to do! What should I do?
2006-10-30 00:57:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
I don't want to lose my friends! I'm really nice to them and they won't talk to me anymore!
2006-10-30 01:08:52 · update #1
Well, first of all, you should stop sleeping around! You are 16 years old and already you've had sex with 4 different guys. And you wonder why girls at school call you a whore? Honey, you're giving away the goodies to anyone who looks your way!
Get yourself to a doctor or clinic for HIV/AIDS and STD tests. Then, concentrate on your school work and education. Forget the boys and the sex!
2006-10-30 01:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to stop having sex with all these guys. You're 16 and have already slept with 4 guys? You really need to wake up. I'm 26 and I've been with 5 women my whole life. The definition of a whore is a woman that is easy. You are definitely playing it easy. have you ever thought about aids, kids? How about multiple kids from multiple dads? You know that underage dads will never have to pay child support because the baby was conceived when they were under age. Might be something to think about. your too young, you have the rest of your life to have babies, have fun first. As far as your reputation at school, don't worry about that, because once you get out of high school, none of that means a damn thing. Popularity doesn't exist.
2006-10-30 11:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
They call you a whore because 4 partners at 16 is quite a lot. Now people shouldn't be calling you names, but you should consider not sleeping with so many people. Your so young and have the rest of your life to have sex and you should concentrate on educating yourself. Get some friends that won't judge you and will help you make better decisions.
2006-10-30 06:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by totallyclueless 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Four guys by the age of 16? That is a lot, honey, and too soon! I am sorry that the other girls are treating you badly, but you have to ask yourself why you are sleeping with this many boys at such a young age. While it is entirely possible to be confident and enjoy sex, I don't think it is possible to reach that state at 16. Try to figure out why you are seeking out these boys. A lot of times, people will act out because they are missing something in their daily lives. Try to figure out what that is, and find a constructive way to get it somewhere else.
I think once you do that, you'll gain the self-confidence that you'll need for life and you'll be able to enter healthy relationships. And until that happens, you might be alienated by your female peers. However, anyone who doesn't want to be your friend because of this, wouldn't be a good friend anyway.
Keep your head up, this will be water under the bridge before you know it. Good luck.
2006-10-30 01:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
i think of thats out of order that individuals are already making out that your going to be pregnant till now graduating in the experience that your nonetheless a virgin and somewhat given which you in easy terms carry hands with boys once you bypass out with them or take a seat on there lap. At my college no you wouldnt be a whore youd be seen to be between the stable ones as quite some women folk in my type have below age intercourse and alot of different stuff. i could evaluate a whore to be somebody which you pay attention the boys speaking approximately and asserting that she gets around alot and likewise if she does issues with boys while she doesnt bypass out with them and not in easy terms one yet alot of boyss. desire I helped (:
2016-10-20 23:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your classmates and friends are correct! You are way
too young to be behaving like a tramp! Act like a lady or go back to your country of origin. We don't need anymore reckless, promiscuous, and unintelligent illegals in this country.
When you learn some self-respect, manners, and morality, you may apply for legal citizenship. It helps to finish your education also. Good luck!
2006-10-30 01:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Well Dum E Sweetheart, You've done everything to gain the title.
Only a man worth waiting for will obtain the hand of a woman that waited.Hold on to your treasure
Honor awaits you. Get back up and don't let it go again.
2006-10-30 02:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should have thought about that before you had sex :-(
Don't do it anymore, and yes 4 partners is way too many at your age. Do you realize how many diseases you could have gotten? and not even known until after you have passed them along to som other guy.
If you don't have sex, they can say what they want, you know the truth
Your friend should hold her boyfriend responsible.....If he cheated, she needs to lose him....If he was man enough to have sex, he needs to be man enough to tell her with who and when it happened.
2006-10-30 01:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 10⤊ 1⤋
Well, considering new teenage trends with sexuality, I'd say you're not really all that bad.
My thoughts are that your friends probably don't see the big picture, and have a religious view towards sexuality that, since you do it far more often than they, would catalog you as a whore.
My suggestion would be for you to find friends OUTSIDE of school. There are plenty of girls around your age who would want to hang out and who can understand the issue of sex without really seeing it as taboo.
My two cents on this is, of course, that you settle down a little and keep studying. DO NOT, under any circumstances, get pregnant, so please limit your sexual escapades and always use protection.
Be careful. And don't worry. Life is much, much easier when you're around your 20's...if you're strong and smart enough.
It's only 4 years away.
2006-10-30 01:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mario E 5 · 1⤊ 7⤋
You are only 16 and you have had sex with four DIFFERENT guys? That is pretty gross. Kysteelgrl is right.
2006-10-30 06:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by princess_29_71 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋