Hypothetically, which is worse:
Being single and having a fling with a girl who has a boyfriend, or
Having a girlfriend and having a fling with a single girl?
2006-10-30 00:32:07 · 21 answers · asked by Alan Fitzgerald 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hehe Jayme, it really is just a hypothetical question. I'm single and too weedy to risk tangling with an annoyed boyfriend!
2006-10-30 00:48:24 · update #1
I think if you are single it is ok to have a fling with someone else even if they have a partner male or female. It`s not you thats cheating is it. But if you are in a relationship with someone and you have a fling with someone else, then you should feel guilty.
2006-10-30 00:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by murch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is the absense of morals. It has no degrees. One is not more acceptable than the next nor the one before. If you are in a commited relationship, then you must abide by the rules put forth by the society in which we live. So, pertaining to your question, Neither is worse nor better than the other. I think what you may be looking for is an answer which will make you feel better for what you have done. If you've done something you would not like to have done to you, then confess and transgress no more. After you confess you'll feel better for having done the right thing. ( even if that means losing the one you are with now)
2006-10-30 00:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically. Depends who's feelings you least want to hurt.. Your girlfriends or the fling girls boyfriend. Take the option that hurts the person you love the most the least.
2006-10-30 00:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hypothetically i think the second one is worse as you are the one cheating then. it's not nice to the person you are with.
if you're single and have a fling with a girl who has a boyfriend then i guess you are wrong but it's not you being unfaithful!
2006-10-30 00:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a fling with another girl's boyfriend.
2006-10-30 00:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are bad and not morally right. But the second on is extremely worst, because you are basically telling YOUR partner that you don't care enough or respect her enough to be honest and faithful to her. She'll get more hurt in the long run from this.
2006-10-30 00:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both are worse.. because they are both cheating.. maybe they differ in some cases but still, it's cheating. see in the first one, you tend to ruin others relationship and on the second, its your relationship that you intend to ruin.i would suggest you to try imagining that you are the one who is being cheated? by that, for sure you'll have you own answer to your question.
good luck
2006-10-30 00:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by ems 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if u knew the girl had a boyfriend, i think that would be quite selfish but the girl is just as bad
but the second one is worse.
2006-10-30 00:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by cleo the pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no morals in cheating...either way it's wrong. Find your own lover not someone elses.
2006-10-30 00:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second one. The first one is her problem with morality not yours.
2006-10-30 00:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋