after my ex boyfriend i can't bring myself to have sex with anyone. my new boyfriend is lovely and kind and i feel bad about not having sex with him. should i tell him about my ex or just have sex with him and get it over with
2006-10-29 23:38:27 · 11 answers · asked by polly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would suggest you to let him know about your ex-boyfriend. I mean its best not to keep any secrets in between a new relationship. If he is the man you are looking for, and is nice and considerate, I am sure he understands how you feel.
Sex is something that both parties should enjoy doing and each others company, and I am sure satisfying him and avoiding your problem will not make you happy. Moreover, 6 weeks isn't a long time, and he starts looking for you for sex.
Just my two cents. Share your thoughts with him, I am sure your new relationship will grow even stronger.
Good luck.
2006-10-29 23:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kaydon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to feel like much of a BF but rather more like a male friend. You need to get over the last fella before starting a new relationship.
2006-10-30 07:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Keanu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you are a christian you know the Bible says do not be tempted cause if you are tempted it brings forth Sin and Sin is Death and the way not to sin is wait on God so when your boyfriend wants SEX say No not until I am married then and only then I will have SEX and if he wont except your decision he is not the one for you so wait on God and he will send you the one that you are meant to be with .
2006-10-30 08:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Princess take care and come to the life track, such guys only enjoys and leave. Pls. get married to a responsible man and enjoy the life and avoid sin.
2006-10-30 07:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by mrs509eb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - if you can sleep with your boyfriend because of your ex, you need to cut your new boyfriend loose. You aren't ready for something new.
2006-10-30 07:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ciaoenrico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this what it means to you? hurry up and get it over? maybe you'd better think about a relationship or, any at all. I don't think you mature just because you have the equipment and the knowledge I don't think your ready for a relationship.
2006-10-30 07:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a b/f. You have a comfort zone, send him away before you hurt him. Also, all you so called christians, piss off, leave your preaching to yourselves, or go find an altar boy.
2006-10-30 08:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r a great hunter.
Kabhi meri gali aaya karo.
2006-10-30 07:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by jolly boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was you i'd tell your boyfriend, and let him go your not ready for that life yet. ok
2006-10-30 07:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a b/friend !!!! these guys only need sex.. pussy hunters !
2006-10-30 07:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋