My boyfriend used to be so amazing. He was open and romantic and made a point of doing special things for me. For the last month or so he's changed a lot. He is only ever nice to me when he is drunk (which is now every night), and hardly notices me otherwise. We live together and it used to work out pretty well. For the past few nights i slept on the couch, but he didnt even notice until the next morning. He also didnt ask why i didnt want to sleep with him. We used to have a very healthy sex life, but it doesnt seem like he really enjoys it with me anymore. The last time he enjoyed it was when it was completely dark and he couldnt see me at all. In the past he enjoyed doing it with all the lights on. I love him and hope to fix whatever is wrong. I tried doing nice things for him and buying him presents, even picking him flowers, but nothing seems to help. I just dont know what to do anymore.
2006-10-29 22:34:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There could be numerous reasons why he is distant with you.
1)He maybe busy with work, or be preoccupied with other things.
2)He is cheating on you.
3)He has become bored and is taking you for granted.
The best thing you can do is talk about it with him, confront him and ask him why he is being distant? How long have you been together?
By communicating with him, you will find out what exactly the problem is.
2006-10-29 22:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I know exactly how you feel...except the guys never actually date me. They lead me on and then drop me within the next week. I guess people need their space, but they shouldn't just leave the other person just sitting there wondering what's wrong. He needs to tell you what's up. Call him and ask him what he wants you to do. Then if he says it's not working...then i guess it's not working. Be upfront about it. Approach the conversation very gently and make sure you let him know that you care about him and that you want to know what's wrong. Texting is an easy way for someone to just write you off...try calling. If calling doesn't work, go talk to him at school. Also, if he isn't giving you the time of day and is ignoring you...it is time for you to move on to someone who won't treat you like that. Good Luck♥
2016-05-22 07:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!!
Try to talk to him.. Everything will be set okay if you will have a serious open conversation to your partner..
Just ask him for a lunch or a dinner so that you can talk to him about the things that you noticed on him..
Goodluck.. You can do it..
2006-10-29 22:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
read btwn the lines gal. i hate to tell u this but he has outgrown u both physically and emotionally! he is nt that into u anymore! im soory!
2006-10-29 22:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by curious cynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think you may be pregnant and see if his attitude changes.
2006-10-29 22:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by enirgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but my feeling I get is that he is cheating.....he has someone else and is hoping that you will leave him so he doesn't have to.
2006-10-29 22:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.............probably just needs time and space to assess his bearings.......Give him time and a bit of space and if the situation doesnt improve, boot him.......
2006-10-29 22:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really
2006-10-29 22:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋