Hi, I'm seventeen and I've been called 'a strange girl' and 'weird' by my best guy friend who I adore, he isn't mean about it, he was just stating a fact about how eccentric I can be about things - but I'm wondering does he thinks it's a bad thing to be like that or do guys prefer a bit of freakiness?
Will being that way make him like me for being unusual or will he find me unattractive? (your opinion!)
2006-10-29 22:16:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi to the person who wanted to know what he was on about - 'He' says things about the way that I jump at the slightest things, scream loudly, find most things funny, and am easily embarrassed - does that mean he's picking fault or has just seen what I'm really like? (Cos I am like that!)
2006-10-29 22:30:19 · update #1
IT BRING THE IDEA OF EXCITING SEX WITH A GIRL WHO IS WEIRD
IT TRIGGERS THE DRESSING UP AND FUN PART OF LIFE NOT SAT IN A LIBRARY BEING BORING
2006-10-29 22:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by RAMSBOTTOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it would depend on the weirdness. I think most people do something that other people find weird or quirky but also endearing at the same time. If he isn't being nasty about it and he is still your best guy friend then I don't think it's a problem.
Do you want him to like you more than a guy friend? I don't think he thinks you are unattractive. Most guys are very visually orientated when it comes to finding the opposite sex attractive, so he is hanging out with you for a reason.
What kind of things is he on about anyway? Perhaps I can answer specifically if I knew.
2006-10-30 06:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean weird
or do you mean WEIRD...
tone down the freakiness but don't stop being yourself even if you are weird ...being unusual is usually the attraction
2006-10-30 06:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's someone for everyone. And what one person thinks is freaky another thinks is adorable. Don't change who you are be true to yourself!
2006-10-30 06:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All my life I have been considered 'Weird'. We are what we are, you a person who has a mind of your own...keep it. Too many people willing to control our thoughts.
You will learn when to control your own weirdness so that it does not effect your life and becomes a problem.
2006-10-30 06:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, they either like you for who you are or not. I'm a tad weird myself, never bothered me or the guys I see.
2006-10-30 07:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I like wierd girls. I wouldn't class you as wierd, you're getting there. Keep trying. Good luck. xx
2006-10-30 06:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying, "I like a B**** on the street on the street, but a freak in the bed?"
2006-10-30 07:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by WalMart_Greeter : 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i like weird, freaky girls, myself, but my opinion to your dilemma is to just be yourself. dont change just to get someone to like you. if he doesnt like you for who you are, there is always the next guy who does like you. just be yourself. chances are, if you think he isnt mean about it, then he might like you, too.
2006-10-30 06:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by lostcause8436 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it it makes you less boring - who cares. But if your weirdness becomes obsessive then that is a problem too.
2006-10-30 06:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by bruce a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋