2006-10-29 21:58:08 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't have sex, then!
Why should you?
There is nothing weird about being celibate.
You will certainly never get aids, hiv, STDs
or unwanted pregnancies if you are female!
Get out more!
2006-10-29 21:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by knoWall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is really special and you do not want to rush into anything. First timer will get some anxiety with it and shy away for it everytime you are confront with that opportunity.
Do not be alarm because you are not alone. There are plenty of people have that same kind of anxiety. I think you have to slowly get into the action. If you do not want to explore by yourself, consult a doctor, there's nothing to be ashame about.
I would encourage you to speak to someone you are very close with and ask for "advice" what you need to do. Listen to their tricks how to break the ice. I sincerely wish you luck.
2006-10-29 22:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Singtel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared about is the question?
If you are scared to catch the chivy then use rubber.
If you are scared of becoming pregnant use rubber and a pill.
If you are scared your name will be dragged through the mud then do it with someone u can trust.
If you are scared you are gonna waste it in someone not special enough then use your heart.
2006-10-29 22:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by alwyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously not involved enough with anyone yet to be considering sex, i hate that word though personally {making love} is farrrr better.
don't listen to pople who pressure you, it's your body and its lovely to respect yourself, decide when your ready.
if however you are in a relationship, someone who you love, then ,maybe you should talk to that person, if it feels right and they are understanding this will relax you more and you won't be so scared. infact the scary feeling will dissappear. if your being pressured by this person, you need to tell them to respect you more and wait 4 u, that way you will be in the driving seat and incontrol of what you want to happen. theres no race 4 this hun.x
2006-10-29 22:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by emz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself, Why am I scared? If it’s your first time than obviously you're not ready for it but if you think its more serious go see somebody you can talk openly with, like a therapist, cause obviously you’re not happy being scared.
2006-10-29 22:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Angelface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have it then. Start with oral sex first. Then after you have an orgasm you wont be scared anymore.
Everyone does it, there is nothing to be scared about. Just use protection and it's all good
2006-10-30 05:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't! When you are mature enough to have sex and are with the right person you won't be scared.
2006-10-29 23:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you scared? There is really nothing 'scary' except the possibility of unwanted pregnancies, STD's, HIV/Aids..........ohhhhhhh I see what you're saying lol
If you are scared you obviously are not ready to be having sex so your solution is simple.
Don't have sex.
2006-10-29 22:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared then dont. When you are ready for sex you will know.
2006-10-29 22:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you dont sound ready to have sex! Dont do it until you are sure and not scared!
2006-10-29 22:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋