From where the realationship was going I really thought that this time it was my future girl, I get to serious to soon and to fast thats just the way I am, When I end up making up my mind about someone and she also said at first Mr.+Mrs she brought it up always,While so I was looking forward to it,So this happens to me to many times,Girls take kindness for weakness thats what I do I spoil them when I think that a relationship is starting for a future life,So it ended after like 7 months,She said I loved her more than she loved me,She always told me that we were going to get married,thats what she wanted,so it ended, It took awhile to realize it, I must get on with my life,She did,thats just the way I am,I get to serious too fast!kindness for weakness and I really get hurt inside takes me awhile to get over it some times I ca'nt Dont know how to handle break ups! when I have or think a serious relationship it just dont happen,It's like there playing me to the end then see ya dont,no,Y
2006-10-29 21:47:26 · 6 answers · asked by see fit to concerned lol! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all girls are like that..
Though I must admit, some girls find a too kind boyfriend weak. It depends on a girl's age I guess. Young girls, same as boys, tend to go after adventures first. Mature girls have the inclination to be more practical.. and prefer to have a very kind bf.
Generally, my advice is to avoid spoiling your gf too much. Though, girls may like it at the start, they'll eventually get tired of it.
A woman who wants to get married someday, wants a man, as a companion, not a servant. She wants her man to be her king, not her servant. Act like a servant, and she'll treat you that way.
Kiss her feet, and you'll just make her look down on you.
Being too kind, and too submissive, can be a tool of creating a monster from your gf.. Bec you always follow what she says, she doesn't know what's good & bad anymore. And surely, she doesn't want to be like that.
2006-10-29 22:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by naive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there something wrong you you i just think you fall for the wrong girl and fall too quickly in love without getting to know them. why don't you take a break from relationships and find out bout yourself and then start all over again and this time become a girls friend and get to know her better. us girls really like it and then ask her out and maybe this time you find the one. good luck.
2006-10-30 05:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by mattie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls are the same. they come to u, sprend time, become close, then break up for no reason at all. it is best to just let it go. next time, find someone who is really true to u.
2006-10-30 05:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by prashanth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what is wrong then you can work on changing it.
2006-10-30 05:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy,wat exactly is d ques??as far as handlin braek ups goes...chill!!!u'll find d ryt one soon!!
2006-10-30 05:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Warrior =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just *** her lol
2006-10-30 05:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by shukoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋