So I was out with this girl who is a mates housemate and she was a bit boozed but I was sober.All through the night we had a great time and then some other chick mates were saying to me that she liked me and that I should have kissed her.I didn't kiss her cos I didn't wanna seem to be taking advantage of her cos she was a bit tipsy.
Now I can't stop thinking about her and she is moving to Oz on Friday for 4 years.Should I try see her again before she leaves or just laugh it off and view it as a missed oppertunity?
2006-10-29 21:16:40 · 19 answers · asked by the_dood_in_the_car 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you did was galant and should be commended. By not taking advantage you have equally saved yourself the embarrasement of a possible criminal charge of rape or the like. If you feel strongly about her i would advise that there is nothing wrong with getting in touch with her before she leaves. I am sure you do not intend to spend the rest of your life thinking what her response to you might have been. GO SEE HER AND EXPRESS YOURSELF the worst that could happen is that she will refuse to see you.
2006-10-29 23:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by kay E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say u "can't stop thinking about her"... how?
If your thoughts are tender and romantic - then you better forget her - you'll only fuel an impossible fantasy if you see her again before she goes.
IF OTOH you really want to sleep with her, knowing that it can only be a short and sweet no ties thing, then go for it - you may be surprised to find she feels the same way - call her up and make a date - but be prepared to be turned down - sometimes girls just don't think the same way.
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2006-10-30 05:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by George D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could but if she is moving to oz for 4 yrs then it wouldn't be much point in starting a relationship.
2006-10-30 05:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see her one last time, and kiss her!
Tell her how you feel, be romantic and stay in touch as amazing friends, you never know how things may be in 4 years time! You will surprised at how fast 4 years go by!
2006-10-30 05:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by GeorgieP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the point of complicating things by seeing her again? just puff up your manly chest and feel flattered that she may have liked you in a booze induced state. then move on.
2006-10-30 05:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh it off and view it as a missed opportunity.
2006-10-30 05:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Evil Atheist Conspirator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Missed opportunity, don't complicate things for her just before her trip, when she comes back see what the situation is.
2006-10-30 05:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have a word she might wanna say goodbye properly to you, but dont beat yourself up over it theres plenty more chips in the fryer
2006-10-30 05:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by dec g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wave good-bye to that particular dream, mate. Wave good-bye.
2006-10-30 05:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've missed the chance. Let go now. if she is for you, then you'll be meeting again. Next time."carpe diem".
2006-10-30 05:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋