I've been having some suicidal thoughts for some reasons. I don't know why! I sometimes even plan my death! I know it's weird. It's like if someone wants me dead. I've been thinking about it for 3 months now. What should I do?
2006-10-29 20:41:19 · 17 answers · asked by Joseph_G 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Jose, I know a couple of things about suicide. They say that most people who commit suicide talk about it first. People don't take them seriously or don't do anything to help them. They don't always though. My best friend shot himself in the head. I never saw it coming. He never hinted. But back to you. Listen, I'm not qualified to help you. Look in the phone book. Look on line. Call an operator. Find the number to a suicide hot line. Call from a pay phone if you're afraid they'll trace the call. Now the person who answers your call knows a lot about suicide. They probably had a friend or family member who killed themselves. Let me just say this Jose. The pain a person causes the people he leaves behind it immense. HUGE. Please don't punish them when you can get help for yourself. OK? Bear the burden so they don't have to.
2006-10-29 20:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are necessarily suicidal, you are just thnking about your death. Everyone does at some time or another. If you have a reason that you want to die, talk to someone and get help with the problem. This world is crap sometimes but there ain't a damn thing worth killing yourself over. You are a better man to work your problems out. Suicide is a cowardly way to go.
2006-10-29 20:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by rswdew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not suicidal..Everyone on this planet thinks to themselves at some point or another..."I just want to get it over with"..etc. Your a liar if you say the thought has never crossed your mind. You think your wierd for planning your death? I've already picked out my casket and my headstone, and I'm 35 years old with no health problems. Just remember.. the thoughts enter your mind randomly and it's whether or not you act upon those thoughts that make you sane or insane. Just don't act upon those thoughts. If you have a thing for death, then become an embalmer or funeral director. If you think your going to act upon those thoughts, then please seek mental help....Grass is not always greener on the other side. Best of luck to you!!!!
2006-10-29 20:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by LISA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age and where you're at in life, I think a certain amount of that is "normal". Part of it could be just from boredom or lack of purpose/direction...especially as you say "I don't know why". I think feelings like you describe mostly come from feelings of hopelessness.
My advice (since you asked *wink*): Find things that interest you...that really get you going...find your "bliss". What turns you on? What makes you tick? What makes you happy to get out of bed in the morning? Make it your goal to find that.
If you truly believe you are suicidal, you should find someone qualified to talk to. There's no shame in talking.
2006-10-29 20:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been thinking about this for 3 months then I believe you need to talk to someone. Call a suicide hotline or get in touch with a guidance counselor if you are in school.
2006-10-29 20:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by liljomo1234 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have something that troubles you but you hide it inside and your thoughts (although you say you don't know where they came from) of sicide come out. It would be good to a therapy and see what really troubles you. Did you have stressful times lately? Don't delay your problem it might just grow. Hope everything goes fine!!!! All the best!
2006-10-30 00:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by lina_girl06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone you can confide in they'll lead you in the right direction this can't be ignored after time things will get worse and no it's not normal to plan your death seek help!
2006-10-29 20:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well whenever you have thoughts like these totally divert your mind to other things like t.v or video games or go out and take a walk in the park immediatly..no one wants you dead its just because your stressed out and want something new in your life you need some dose of adrenalin..whenever your free go always do stuff like riding a bike or go out in a amusement park and get yourself in a rollar coaster..
2006-10-29 21:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by cool k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a guidance councelor or trusted adult.. thoughts are only thoughts my talking about may help you discover what is really bothering you. You never want to wait to ask for help when you're thinking about killing yourself.
2006-10-29 20:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go 2 yer doc n talk 2 him bout it
he'll know how 2 help ya
2006-10-29 20:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by fairy_without_boots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋