I decided to give my chic some pleasure with my mouth as I heard they like this a lot. When it came to my turn she said "I can't do it" Do I have a right to be angry, disappointed, or feel betrayed. Or maybe I was stupid to do it in the first place!
I even considered ditching her becoz it makes me think she doesn't love me that much.
2006-10-29 20:34:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dissapointed yes but betrayed & angry nah! Maybe she aint ready like you were. Try not to think about it coz that's just gonna work on your nurve. Dont ditch her, what if the next 1 does the same thing are you gonna walk again? She's your girl bro give her some time i think she's worth it if you chose her over a million others. Don't you?
2006-10-29 20:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Darksword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee whiz, don't be angry. You can be dissapointed, but didn't you get any pleasure out of you doing her. It sounds like she is a beginner. You need to be patient and don't ditch her just because she won't suck your d*ck, you can make yourself more attractive next time and maybe she'll do it then. She loves you, just stop being so forceful.
2006-10-30 04:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she doesnt want to do it, the way she said 'cant do it' maybe means she doesnt know how or think she wont be good at it...but you shouldnt be angry, you cant make her do something shes not comfortable with, just cos u did it for her doesnt mean she HAS to do it for you, it was your choice to do it.
Plus being angry with her would make it less likely to want to please you back, or worse if she feels forced to do it she'll likely resent you.
Just talk to her in a non agressive way, be patient and understanding to her reasons and tell her it makes you feel that she doesnt love you. Maybe if she understands this she might give it a try.
2006-10-30 04:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by ash1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be going down on her for fun, I might feel a bit disappointed but never stupid. Women deserve just as much right to orgasm as men, women have been performing fellatio for many years to men who never reciprocated. Keep your woman happy and she may come to do this on her own when she is comfortable. If you're in it for the oral, do you and her a favour and move on.
2006-10-30 04:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Keanu 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to be slow with her i'm not sure how old you both are but i am going to guess she may have never done it before it can be a very scary the first time you need to ask her why she didn't do it tell her it doesn't matter but you would appreciate the ruturned favor talk her through it. but don't ditch her.
2006-10-30 04:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was over joyous and enjoyed a lot. You carry on for her pleasure but dont ask to reciprocate. Its the mind of some people.
2006-10-30 04:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no you do not have the right to be mad because she did not ask you for that you decided to do that on your own so when she is ready she will do it for you but if she does not you cannot be upset that special moment for real females no of days girls are just doing it to any body and you should feel like the man to know that it is just not that easy for her to do that
2006-10-30 05:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by NICOLE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Younger girls are usually not into doing that to a guy. It's nothing personal. And if anything, she should dump you. You should feel happy and satisfied that you gave her pleasure. Selfish.
2006-10-30 04:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Emjay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't be angry if you went down on her it was because you wanted to, unless you were doing it favor for favor, even though she's your gf theres not that many girls that like to do it.
2006-10-30 04:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't stress it, not all chicks like the idea of going down, just keep giving it to her and maybe sooner or later she might be comfortable enough to return the favor. It's not that big of a deal.
2006-10-30 04:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Slim 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋