He said we just have to find a way of accepting all...
2006-10-29 20:28:45 · 17 answers · asked by Miss D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Its going to tear you down. Not trying to be brutal or anything, but two oposing view points are kind of bad. Any way I guess I would take a shot at it. Well I am taking a shot at it actually and well I worry about it, but oh well.
2006-10-29 20:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Zach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start , people who don't believe in God don't hate God, they can't hate something they don't think exists. That said if you are very into faith you will have a problem but sometimes differences attract.
Ask yourself , do you love this man as he is or are you hoping to change him into someone you can love later once he believes the same things you do...if you want to change him into something he is not then you don't love him...move on.
2006-10-29 21:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by CHEESUS GROYST 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My significant other and I have different belief systems (I'm a science-junkie chaos mage, he's a Taoist raised Catholic/Russian Orthodox and still holds a good bit of belief in the Abrahamic God), but we're also accepting of each other's beliefs and both of us are always trying to learn more about religions of all stripes; add to that the fact that our beliefs don't contradict each other. I think it's that contradiction of belief you have to watch out for.
2006-10-29 21:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by angk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Life is hard enough without going into a situation that will eventually cause so many problems in your life. Do NOT ever expect someone to change, they may, or they may even get worse and create a situation in child rearing which is unacceptable to you.
Look elsewhere for a life partner.
2006-10-29 20:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, can YOU accept it? Or will you eventually want to try to get him to change his mind?
I knew a lot of women who married nonbelievers, and i can tell you, the husbands RARELY change. These women either eventually divorce, or end up taking the kids to church by themselves. There is always a certain sadness in them, that they can't all go as a family.
Ask yourself if this is the life you want for yourself.
2006-10-29 20:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a person just does nt belive that is one thing, if they on the other hand go out of there way to hate God then you MUST not be around them, I stayed with someone who helped me for years . when I was disabled.who was a fine person.who did nt belive in god, it didnt hurt me, I belive and have faith and thats that, but surely it will affect you. the vibrations from him, will affect you, it will hurt you. anyone who hates and will continusly express that hate around you will not be good for your spirtual growth but if he will simply not go on and on about it and keep it to himself. then I think it would be ok.as long as you have faith and love, and have excepted the spirit of God in you, noone really can affect you,it just that you dont wont to be around anyone that hates. anything or any one.may God be with you allways
2006-10-29 20:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It says in 1 Corinthians 15:33 "Bad company corrupts good morals"
2006-10-29 20:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by love my Lord 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definately not a good idea. A non might say go for it but I doubt any believer who has lived a few years is gonna say run while you can. In the end the heartaches will come.
2006-10-29 20:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 Corinthians 6:14
"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"
2006-10-29 20:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well dont bring up god too much. You can pray and all that just dont shove it down his throat. Maybe then it could work. Good luck because youre gonna need it.
2006-10-29 20:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋