I'm east indian, and you can say, I really dig asian (whether its chinese, japanese, korean, hk) girls.
However, my brother is trying to scare me off from them, saying I'm going to get rejected by them because I'm brown.
Is there some truth to my brother's words?
2006-10-29 20:27:37 · 6 answers · asked by twiztedweb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All the oriental girls I know would not go out with an indian guy. I have only ever seen one Chinese girl with an indian guy anyway. The same goes for black guys, although they are becoming more acceptable to date. The main problem is fmily. The more traditional girls (and even the less traditional ones who will go out wiht white guys) still feel that their family will be ashamed (internally and externally, i.e. them dating a foreigner will embaress the immediate family with other members of the family, and also amongst friends of the family).
Face is extremely important to Chinese families ( I can;t speak for other orientals, but i presume it is the same). For many girls, if the family will be put at risk of losing face, the girl will not go out with a foreigner, or at least not in a way that will lead to a serioous relationship because the family would have to find out.
The less traditional ones might be interested in casual sex with a foreigner, but a long-term relationship is much less likely to succeed. Chinese families are, for the most part, extremely xenophobic and untrusting of outsiders.
There is more acceptance of white/oriental relationships, but my girlfriend's family found it a massive scandal that her cousin was marrying a black man. In the end, they put it down to her always trying to rebel against her parents, and said it was only her going through a phase and it would not last.
Seems a bit harsh. Even i (I'm half English half H.K. Chinese) had a whole heap of problems with meeting my girlfriend's parents who preferred her to go out with a fully Chinese guy as they would understand the Chinese culture etc far better than anyone else, even if they learnt about it, as it is not bred into them.
Have a go though, I'm sure someone will be interested..... have you seen the state of most Chinese guys?! haha... there's a serious disparity in looks between the guys and the girls.
2006-10-29 20:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by willliewaggler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess so
2014-05-09 07:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey:
There is an exceptoion to every rule and your brother is just telling you because of his love for you and his experience!
No matter what it is in life we should we proud of what and who we are for each of us is unique in our own way!
And you will not know if this is true unless you yourself take a change and approach an asian girl!
GoodLuck!
Love SANAM
2006-10-30 04:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has ur brother given the information based on his experience or heresay. Please follow if it is his personal experience. Otherwise try urself. It is often said that "Love is blind".
2006-10-30 04:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no....if ur irresistably charming and knows how to keep up the interest of ur girls.......u won't be rejected.....
2006-10-30 04:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋