Ok long story short...my g/f decided she needed a break about a month and a 1/2 ago because of an argument we got into (wasnt a big deal but turned into one)..during the break she kept saying she was confused and needed space and i really didnt give it to her big mistake, also I saw her a couple times and well stuff happened..etc etc..she says she was almost ready to come back but my friend decided to call her and bug her and tell her to stop playing with my head and she thinks i had him do it and now she dumped me about a week ago, and talked to her yesterday and she said she'd rethink it over...what's everyone's opinion on this?? she saying she still loves me and cares about me we've been together for two years had a great relationship some bumps here and there but just need some advice, just giving her, her space now and hoping she comes back what's everyone's opinion?? what should I do? you think it's really over??
2006-10-29 20:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by digdoggy299 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ohhh..I am sorry to say this, but I think that if she wanted to be with you she would. I think you should find someone who appreciates how sweet and sensitive you are, you will be much happier.
Good luck.
2006-10-29 20:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing attractive about you pressurising her to make a decision,but on the other hand,what is a reasonable amount of time to afford her to make up her mind?From the scant amount of info available,shes possibly immature.We find girls as weird as they find us,try this it sometimes works,make yourself unavailable,go and see that movie you wanted to see,catch up with an old mate,let it be known(discreetly)you are getting on fine,her interest may increase,if not move on my friend.Explain to her your relationship is a 2 way street when you get back together, you have about as much interest in suffocating her as she has with you,from time to time you will need your own space.
2006-10-29 20:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's REALLY over.
Time for the break up break down...
To all of you who's partner wants a 'break' they really mean that they want to break up but want to keep you hanging on just in case they can't do better and need to come back to you.
2006-10-29 20:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think it's over. Move on she isn't that into you. Find someone that is with no doubt into you and doesn't 'need space'. Find someone that wants into your space and stays. If it's too much work, it isn't working. Your relationship is over. Sorry
2006-10-29 20:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ande Deel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something to her reasoning, give her some space and don't pressure her. However it does seem like it's on its way to being over.
2006-10-29 20:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Keanu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, tell her how you feel, and give her some space. Not too much though, you gotta let her know that you are still there and that you still love her.
2006-10-29 20:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I think its over. She doesn't love you as much as you love her. You gave her space she needed, but its not enough for her. Give up and be strong. Forget her.
2006-10-29 20:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Latica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... all u can do is reassure her that u really love her...dont cram it down her throat cause she should know already.. you shouldnt have to make her know u love her... after that its really up to her.. can't change the way she feels.. no matter what...EVER.... If she loves u back like u think... shouldnt have any probs..
2006-10-29 20:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by doc_otis_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space and use the time to examine yourself.
If it is really over, you can't do anything do change it.
Work on yourself.
2006-10-29 20:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Yuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to give her some time to think. If you
don't you might lose her.
2006-10-29 20:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋