But my girlfriend is not really. She's got kind of an old soul you know? Just very mature and sex is just sex to her. She tries her best to make me happy in anyway, it's just sex isn'ta real big deal to her and it is to me. What am I supposed to do?
2006-10-29 19:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by mrmanseven 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't het me wrong... We have sex often, she makes sure I always getoff when I need to. It's just I want to keep it interesting by trying new things and she's justnot real interested in pushing the envelope. She'll do things for me, but I'd rather her want to do things than just put up with them you know?
2006-10-29 20:39:03 · update #1
get her to read about erotic stories.......
2006-10-29 20:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's not really anything you can do about that talk to her and let her know that while you are happy with every thing else in your relationship that you wish that you could be more physical. try to spice things up a bit and see if that gets her more interested. until then cuddle up with some hand lotion ;)
2006-10-29 19:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is gay. I'm not joking, seriously a lot of gay women believe themselves not to be because they feel they want kids and the perfect life etc. I don't know her so it''s just a thought.
2006-10-29 20:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im exactly the same....im so over sex...i have had so many bad experiences it has just put me off sex!!! that culd be her case also i cant orgasm so thats also a reason y i dont like sex! also if she feels uncomfortable or just annoyed that u bug her too much?
2006-10-29 19:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jadems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,dun make sex yucky to her..dun overdo it..if u really think u can't go on w. enough sex fr her,suggest a breakup..won't do 4 u both to be going in opp dir.
2006-10-29 19:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Hermione J.Potter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. Her libido is different from yours. Ask her what she likes, and really be receptive. Don't pressure her too much or go on about it too much, as that could turn her off too.
2006-10-29 19:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starve her of it...even though it may be hard on you for a while...then maybe one night she'll jump your bones...worked for me once or twice.
2006-10-29 19:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur situation is exactly similar to mine...
I just let out my urgues thru masturbation...& she doesnt mind me doing that.
2006-10-29 19:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may just be a poor performer.
2006-10-29 19:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
compromise
talk it out and make a schedule if nothing else works.
2006-10-29 19:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club, thats why there is Playboy.
2006-10-29 19:57:19 · answer #11 · answered by 7am gangster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋