i never had any super good relationships in the past but ive been with a guy for almost 2 yrs now and i feel that maybe hes "the one" i know this is one of those "you have to figure it out on your own" stuff but i want advice and want to be sure.
im in my 20s [yes i know im still too young...] but sometimes i really feel like i finally found prince charming.
side note: i get along with his parents, my parents arent big on talk but they think hes a good guy, we go to the same collage and met in sr yr hs. we are also different race...hes chinese and im korean.
2006-10-29 19:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i trust him and he trusts me. i never had a guy TOTALLY devoted to me and my happiness. and i never had a guy were i always wanted to make sure he was safe/ok and happy.
i guess im asking random people in the internet because i guess i am nervious or scared since i didnt feel like this about anyone before.
2006-10-29 20:14:42 · update #1
=Kahlil Gibran defines it as "spiritual affinity". It's the hidden element of chemistry. It's when two beings meet and connect on a deeper level. It can only be felt in the heart and soul. It's about friendship, respect, humor and the feelings of warmth and contentment that come when you are in his/her presence. Check out this link for more of an explaination.
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http://www.enotalone.com/article/2946.ht...
2006-11-02 11:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You have been with this person long enough to see the mood swings, the way the two of you get along and most importantly the way you are treated by this person alone or around others, Do you trust this person? If this is all good then you know but it sounds like there is more in question?
2006-10-29 20:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by jefgreen237 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is U who tolld u if he's the one
Ur inner feelings told u
I think u r confused that it is just attraction or love
i simply give u the scale in which u measure
In love there is always the feeling of giving.
U never want anything to whom u love. U always dedicated to give his/her a just sparkling smile on his lips. If all these feelings u feel than surely u love him and he is your Prince Charming but if this is missing than it is just attraction.
2006-10-29 20:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by aryan_rocky2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how u will know. You may not be into the bible or anything, but the verses below are completely true for your situation.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."
I Corinthians 13:4-8
2006-10-29 19:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only YOU know if he's right for you. So far, everyone likes each other, but you and him like each other, that's what really matters.
If you have to ask a bunch of on-line strangers how you feel about someone, then perhaps you need to re-examine your own motives for being with him in the first place.
2006-10-29 19:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is the one you would have certainly felt something in your heart like bells when you first met him. Since your both parents are supportive it is a good sign. As for your race I do not think you are different cause you both are Mongoloids. Any way have fun and good luck!!!
2006-10-29 19:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sound so corny but when you know you just know, picture you're life without him for any reason and if you chest gets tight and tears come to your eyes and all of the sudden you realize that you are holding your breath then you'll know
~good luck
2006-10-29 19:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow of the relationship and remain faithful, and your question will answer itself
2006-10-29 19:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont question your self if you love him. If you question your self well its not really a good sign.
2006-10-29 19:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just know :) there'll be a moment when you just know he's The One.
2006-10-29 20:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by ferriss_starr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋