Is it better to live your life single and not have to worry about geting hurt in a relationship?
2006-10-29 19:44:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is better if you feel so but if you don't then is not the sollution because we live in a hurting world, you will be hurt even in your single life. Jesu is the best sollution He says come unto me ye who are heavy larden
2006-10-29 19:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by hananiah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well getting single for the rest of your life mean u would be very lonely. Not all relationship would end up with both parties being hurt. So perhaps u should give it a try and try to think positive when you are in a relationship. If things really go bad you don't have to feel bad cause u would learn a lesson at the end of the day. So look at the bright side!
2006-10-29 19:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by ling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wud say better b single then get hurt since hurting ourself is not going to do us good on our health and mental front to b in a cheery mood and have a smile on the face one has to b happy from within I will say get involved in a relationship but till the time comes when u can really trust don't really start planning within that relationship b open and try being un emotional one nite stands seem more appealing in this situation rather then hurtful encounters...if there are kids involved then it'll b quite a handful but then u have to decide wats good for u and ur kids too....newayz if u still remain single u can do something worthwhile with ur life get productive with some work and in time u'll ignore the pain away I say get involved in ur work and when anyone comes in ur life go on have fun but before u think of commitment try to test the person involved and maybe decide to stick around when u genuinely feel right bout the relation u can opt for no straings attached relationship...well not all people are same but it's our judgement which needs to b renovated and our perspective which has to b sharpened...
2006-10-29 20:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by kittana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its very lonely to be single. But that doesn't mean that you should throw yourself into any sort of relationship just for the sake of having one. It takes a lot of effort in a relationship and of course, people do get hurt but those in relationships also grow personally, experience new emotions and experiences that single people miss out on...like sharing, being cared for etc. So its not better to be safe than sorry in this case.
2006-10-29 19:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person. One comic said it's a choice between being lonely or being irritated (being single or married).
Either side has its pluses and minuses.
If you view a relationship as simply a potential to get hurt, then you have to examine your attitude and how you came to it by relating getting hurt equals relationship.
If you want to be with someone who is not perfect but good for you, then get yourself to a therapist, and figure out why your expectations/standards are so high that cause you automatic discomfort or disappointment.
2006-10-29 19:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have friends and or family members that would consitute a relationship. There is always a possiblity of getting hurt in every relationship. Sometimes life is about taking chances and getting hurt. And if you do get in a relationship that ends up hurting you, in the long run it makes you a stonger person socially.
2006-10-29 19:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to get out there and get hurt than to live without love. love is the most wonderful thing in the world and having just a drop of it is worth all of the pain and hurt in the world
2006-10-29 19:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to love and get hurt than never experience at all to love and be love in return. Besides, you'll never appreciate the beauty of love until you experience getting hurt cause you won't know the difference.
2006-10-29 21:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by AraClaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon its better to be single than to be in a relationship that ,makes u feel miserable. Tell mi, can u name n-thing lonelier than being with a someone who makes ur lyf hell. U will meet someone who makes u feel lyk a human being. Donn regret being in that relationship coz.....my luv all the people learn from their best. Wish u luck
2006-10-29 19:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you like being alone. That works for some people. But all relationships have their ups and downs. Pain is love!
2006-10-29 19:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋