I feel this guy doesn't want to be my BF but he refuses to talk on line with me anymore..I havent seen him in over 5 years and we were never BF/GF and he even told mr he could never be angry at me but its like he just disappeared on me I made it clear from the start I only love my BF...Wierd why can't he just tell me thewhat his problem is...he is 24 or 25 not a child..
2006-10-29 19:35:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
b'cos they don't want to waste their time
2006-10-29 19:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seeing someone else, then why are you bothering with this guy?
If he sees this relationship as a dead end, why shouldn't he move on? Maybe this guy is a little more mature than you think, and a heck of a lot more mature than you. Perhaps he has a lot more responsibilities and doesn't have time for your cat and mouse games.
You question in itself shows your immaturity. You made a generalization about guys, as though ALL guys do this. That is very immature of you to assume that just because it has happened to you, that all guys must be jerks. Furthermore, if you are saying that ALL guys do this because this situation has happened to you more than once--well, dearie, that should tell you something! Or, are you too self absorbed to get it?
I responded to your mesage because I resented the fact that you said "Why do guys...", implicating that all guys do this, rahter than saying "Why would a guy..." or "Why would THIS guy..."
Stereotyping is VERY immature! Grow up!
2006-10-29 19:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like me dont want to be the cause of a failed relationship Here a girl or woman wears a ring on the second finger of the left hand this means she is in a relationship ,engaged or married I look for that first .I will still say hello as is our custom but no more .May be this friend was hoping for more from you but after finding out it was never going to happen he has found someone else and moved on that is his free choice just as yours was.
2006-10-29 19:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be stupid.
I have a very similar situation, have cared about a girl that I used to go to school with and have been close with her online since then for 3 years or so. Never really realized how much I cared about her until she told me she was in a happy, committed relationship and was in love.
I kind of freaked out and was forced to realize that we couldn't be together that way, presently, down the line or otherwise.
I hadn't really realized how I'd felt until she'd told me.
Been a couple of months and I haven't talked to her since. Oh, I'm also a big coward for doing so. Hooray for anonymity.
2006-10-29 19:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Faint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off it seems like you're talking to another guy in a way you shouldn't if you have a boyfriend. And secondly why should he waste his time if he's obviously getting attatched? The girl I probably like the most in my life I COMPLETELY stopped talking to after only 2 months of dating. Why? Cause she wasn't looking for a relationship so I got out before I got too attached and got my heart broken.
2006-10-29 19:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by mrmanseven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to get with you -- not as a friend but something else, and you made it clear you are interested or with another. So he can't imagine just being friends with you, he's not interested in that. Move on. Men at 40 and 50 think the same way.
2006-10-29 19:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not totally weird maybe you're just the one who thinks that cause he stop your communication.Maybe he's just don't find extra time to chat on you like he's to busy on something or someone.Don't try to think that he's interested on you or he want you to be his girlfriend cause if really likes,he will make a move long time ago.Yeah your mature enough to know what is true or not.And as per what you have said that you only love your bf so why your sims to be bother if he's gone.
2006-10-29 20:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you gave him no choice and from what you are saying, he probably had some strong feelings for you, and he could not bare the fact that some one else was f--cking you at the time, so he just disappeared, give the poor bastard some time, and cut him some slack eh
2006-10-29 19:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is a long time. Maybe he just does not want to be with you and cannot say it on your face.
2006-10-29 19:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is Godly, because God also hate people who love Him and at same time other gods.
They also fear enemity and hatered which my result into into deaths with others
2006-10-29 19:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by hananiah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur the only one acting like a child...just leave him alone.
2006-10-29 19:38:29 · answer #11 · answered by wcbaseball4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋