when i have no interest in a girl, they're so easy to deal with, like i can get them to show me titties like it was nothing and basically feel like i could juz get with them but when i approach a girl i actually like and wanna ask them out or w/e i freeze and can't act like i do with the girls i have no interest in therefore not working out...
2006-10-29 18:28:08 · 8 answers · asked by confuzzled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's because you're just being yourself with the girls you don't care about and women love a guy that can just be themselves. Focus on your strengths and not your weakenesses when you're with a girl you like. Ask her about her job, her passions, her life. Get her to talk about herself. Tell her her hair looks good, but don't lie. Give her a nice compliment, but don't lie. Be yourself and you will have so much fun discovering tons of beautiful women out there. Oh by the way, they're everywhere......
2006-10-29 18:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it? You are self concious. You don't like the possibility that someone you like won't like you in return. With the other girls you don't like you probably don't care about how they really feel about you as long as you get what you want. With girls you like you have to take a risk, act right, and hope for the best.
-Good Luck
2006-10-30 02:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by nevermind_my_id 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are too stressed out or afraid of rejection, calm down and if the girl that you like says no then go to the next one.
Woman can sence if a man is not confident.
2006-10-30 02:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are involved, u afraid of rejection and you are self conscious. Not all things can be easy for you man, you need an emotional challenge every now & again.
2006-10-30 02:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of coz its diff and its very natural for u to feel like tt coz u like her and dun want things to go wrong so u tend to get nervous and u cant really comunicate with her the way u do with other gals coz u dun wanna say d worng things and u dun wanna screw up so u have difficulties...
try to relaxx a little...dun get so tense up try to take things slow and ez like askin her out on a date or getting to noe her better than when u feel tt she is comfortable with u , take d guts to ask her out on a date...it come naturally...
good luck!! ;)
2006-10-30 02:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by SexyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then talk to a girl you like the same as a girl you dont really mind.
2006-10-30 02:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by silva_coin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've found the girl who finally match you.
2006-10-30 02:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gay
2006-10-30 02:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋