I used to have this crush on this girl, she is absolutely amazing. I try talking to her, but i think i still act a little awkward around her, and it just always seems like she is uncomfortable. We do have a choir class together, and its a really fun group, small, but fun. I really want to just be friends with her, because she is just so awesome. But, when I did have the crush on her, I think she knew, and I am worried that she may still think I have a crush on her. I want to know, should i just give up hope entirely? I mean , this girl, is sbo officer, piano player, 4.0 student, in a play, in the choir group im in, and still manages to have a social life full of activities. I am not up to this calliber in life yet. GAH!!! I do not like her in that way anymore. I have gone on a date with her, we went and saw a play. It went okay. I just have a hard time talking to her, and have had previously, and now, I just want to be friends. But my stupid insecurity gets in the way. I just do
2006-10-29 18:17:57 · 9 answers · asked by Michael D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you still are mesmorized by her, considering the way you talk about her. but, it seems as though you have dealt with the issue a little more, and aren't so obsessed.
so, don't try so hard. when you try really hard, things don't flow naturally. that is probably weirding her out. i know i get that way when i can tell people are uncomfortable. when you relax and act yourself, she will probably become much more comfortable around you.
you didn't stalk her, did you? that would make her weirded out. ok, just had to ask....
2006-10-29 18:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, if you dont like her in that way anymore, then you shouldnt feel awkward around her. She may be a great girl, but dont put yourself down, dont treat her like a goddess. She will see that and she will know that she has complete control of you, dont give her that control. Be confident and let her realize that you dont have a crush on her anymore, stay friends with her, but also meet other girls. She'll probably be jealous once she sees you talking to other girls.
2006-10-29 18:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what grade you are in, but I am guessing High School. So this may seem way too mature, but at this point, you need to clear up any misunderstandings. Write her a note. Or ask to meet up with her at a fast food restaurant, so you two can talk. It's best to get it straight with her. Girls like honesty. You really don't have anything to loose. I know you will be scared, but you must confidently approach her. Say something like, 'hey ___, I know this sounds last minute, but I needed to talk with you, do you think we can 1. talk tonight on the phone/or2. meet after school at McDonald's so we can talk...ext......Take charge you are the man!
2006-10-29 18:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's greater significant to you? A) A courting with a guy you rather like, yet not love. Which of course won't final very long. B) a great buddy who's consistently there for you that may assist you. Say you smash up with the guy- who would be there to make you happier and cheer you up? Your buddy. the guy's not well worth it. Relationships only come and go. pals final invariably.
2016-10-16 13:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it so much. it is your worrying vibes that come off onto her and it makes both of you so awkward. if you are friends, you will still be friends. give her some space but go about your choir class normally like dont ignore her. i had this guy like me and i didnt like him, it was all cool but he wanted to show me he didnt like me anymore so much that i got really annoyed. so just chill, dont try so hard, like i said if you are friends, you should still be friends
2006-10-29 18:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still have the crush ,theres no doubt about that,she doesnt hate you she just doesnt feel the same about you no big deal just pick yourself up dust yourself off and say ok,itll get better with time you will see.
2006-10-29 18:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl, then youve got to tell her how you used to feel about her and how you feel now. otherwise u will have no relationship with her whatsoever
2006-10-29 18:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by silva_coin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a big baby, take a hint, move on. go out get an easy lay, even if ya gotta pay for it.
2006-10-29 18:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget her and move on
2006-10-29 18:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋