2006-10-29 17:53:20 · 20 answers · asked by Shinta 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
So that we learn how to use everything we experience to appreciate being alive.
2006-10-29 17:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you suffering? In what ways can you resolve the issues that ceate this stress for you. You must have a belief that life is fair and equal and that quality of life is the absense of pain, nothing cuold be farther from the truth! Some suffer over what others do, others suffer because of what they do. And the worst of all is the suffering that no one can resolve in the human condition, death, aloneness, the shell of reality as it cracks and reveals the ugly crippled human existance for what it is. Survival depends on your soul and will, not on the illusions and distractions from your own training, experience or patterns. Seek out yourself, a piece at a time if nessasary till you arrive at the place where you except yourself above all else, nurture your experience with the knollege that you can only be resonsible for what you do! And then live in such a way as to never leave a circumstance with a feeling that you were not your most graceful and human, that your heart even if broken is on a journey that defines your existance as worthy even if others around fail to be aware of you. After great sadness comes great joy your challenge is to know when to accept these gifts. For every moment of tortured darkness lies the truth of the promise for the light, every pain a teaching, every betrayal a lesson, every ugly attitude a chance for self examination... Life is to be loved even for it's cruelty not only that but because of the cruelty. If one has never seen the dark they cannot percieve the light. the answer to your first question is you live so that others can live. if you do it in a state of profound wonder you will find that this openess to reality is a needed enlightenment to our souls. I'm not saying it's easy by any means judgement has to take a backseat as well do lifetimes of attitudes and demands of selfdom. But some things are worth the asking very much like your very sad question, and now i feel better i hope you do too. Creatures of the universe should find awareness the apex of thought, and accept that this gift comes with many costs.
2006-10-29 18:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by pink poodle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take courage, Thats what the bible says.
Have faith.
Take Joy.
Know that through trials you will grow (or weaken) depending on how you go throught them.
Know that no disiplane is enjoyable while its happing but afterword, you will live a life thats peicefull cuz you endured it.
Know Jesus holds you and that he wants to take you through the trials of life and to help others through to.
know that without choice we would be mindless beings worshiping God and God didnt want mindless worship, he wanted wholehearted worship, thats why he gave us choice. People choise how to live and yeah it messes with other people but that wont change so dont wory about that. Just ask Jesus to hold you through each day and stay in His will and you will live a life of true Joy and Peace like you never felt before and life....will be SO much better then when you were stressed about whats going on and all the pain. You dont focus on pain when your in it...you take your mind off it...same principle. Put your mind, heart, soul in God and he will help you through, and others to as you will naturaly be doing what he wants for your life (which is WAY better then any lame dreams you have for your own life) yes I said your own dreams are lame.....Gods is way better then yours, he made you to do his will specialy, not so your a pawn, but so you can live a full life and make the most inpact posiple on others before you get taken home (heven.
2006-10-29 20:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by robertt223 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Shinta because we can't express our feelings to everybudy so if some of your close ones have herted you then pray the GOD and ask him the reason why he did that or tell all the things to your parents who will give you some guidence regarding that and may give show some path.
Shin,one thing you remember life is very short and beautifull don't make it to go waiste do some good work that people will bless you for EX:teaching a poor childern,helping a poor people.
as we know shin, life is very hard to live in your whole life you will meet many types of people like good or bad but it depends on you which category you select if you select a bad category you will be in trouble if your in good group you will be happy.
And one thing you remember for ever don't do any bad thing that your parents are insulted in society.
Always try to bring good name for your parents remember one thing after every pain and suffering there will come good day. Hopes for live but not for die.and be frank and truth with me if you have any problem .but please don't try to do such rubbish work.
BYE.
2006-10-30 17:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because life is full of suprises and you never know when you might get a break and not be miserable anymore.
Maybe you feel like you were delt a bad hand at the moment but things do get better.
If you are suffering and need help look for help from a Psychiatrist because it sounds like you are very depressed.
2006-10-29 17:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain & suffering are a part & parcel of our lives. They are like seasons of life. Learn to live life to the fullest despite pain.
Difficulties in life DO NOt come to destroy you but to help you realize your hidden potential! Let difficulties know that YOU are TOO Difficult!
2006-10-30 22:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a journey and that is a part of it. Pain and suffering help to shape people, make them more compassionate towards others
2006-10-29 18:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is physical, there are treatment to relieve you of pain and suffering. If it cannot be helped, you must put up with it, for it is the result of our past karma. Life meant for working out our past karma. Ending your life, on your own, will not extinguish your karma, which if done, will necessitate another life of pain and suffering.
2006-10-29 18:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in addition to feeling pain and suffering, we are capable of feeling joy and love.
2006-10-29 17:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you but we cannot suicide to end this pain and suffering..suicidie is a cowardly act which is all about running from our responsibility and make a fun of ourselves in society..doesnt matter how much pain and suffering life brings just face it..
2006-10-29 21:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by cool k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why you are still here asking question. Think on the bright side, there is hope in every day. Life will be dull if there is no up or down. Don't think too much, live on.
2006-10-29 18:08:28 · answer #11 · answered by zodiaccyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋