Since birth i feel that i am always rejected from my childhood, in my school and now i am already a office girl still i feel that. Specially now all of my relationship falls into nothing I always try to be inlove again and again but still heartbreak are the outcome. I love this guy and he told me he also love me eventhough i know he has GF already (long distance). To make the long story short i commit to one guy who also love me for me to forget this man i really love. But I always felt guity with this 2nd guy who becomes my BF because I dont love him. I am a bad person I know but what can I do to forget this man I love??? too much tears i cried, to much pain i sacrifice. Please help me to find the answers.
2006-10-29 17:51:43 · 23 answers · asked by Lonely girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love U
2006-10-29 17:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nobody loves you, then you don't need to feel guilty for being a girlfriend of a guy who you don't love. Chill, neither of you loves the other, but you're still allowed to be boyfriend and girlfriend. You are capable of caring about each other.
To forget the man you love, ha! Why forget someone? That would be chickening out. Instead just think of how happy you are that he is not a danger to you and realize the fault of the situation is in your own mind and be patient getting over it a little at a time. The real problem, hon, is when you have a bad relationship that messes up your life, not when you get stronger by overcoming an addiction.
You are cranky because of yourself, not because of anyone else. Whether they love you or not is their problem but how you live is yours.
2006-10-29 18:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that i can say is that whenever ya'll see eachother again and ya'll don't hit it off that means you had created new feelings for your BF and just try not to think about him at all and if he said that he love then he wouldn't have a GF already he would stick with you.
2006-10-29 17:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by baileysherrika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some you time. Forget them both and go accomplish something just for you. Find yourself first and then go get your man. Then you will have alot to offer whomever your with. Also make sure you have a set of friends (girls) who have your back. Remember you only need one Husband to get your fairy tale ending but at least 4 bridesmaids. So find them first.
2006-10-29 17:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Armond B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be reckless with someone else's heart and don't put up with someone who is reckless with yours. Try to mend that piece of broken heart by meeting the right person. Keep an open mind. You may also try PrivateDateFinder. Check out this site http://www.upkb.com/privatedatefinder.php
2006-10-29 18:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by aba D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ger~~~ one of my gd fren, gal also, got the same prob as u, it ended up the 1st guy broke with the long distance gal fren, the 2nd guy her BF broke up with her also and now she is all alone not wanting to patch back with the 1st guy she luv due to some reason. Hopefully u dun end up like this
2006-10-29 18:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by ralfhero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dear friend,i dont know how u are bad but u first must know ur self well.u must know ur good and bad habits.and then if u can tell him that u love him and do not want lose him.but if he did not accept u can make urself interest in other fields like sports,reading and etc.i have ur problems too.i have a boyfriend that i love him too much i do not want lose him at all.he knows too but we have to break apart.anyway first know urself and solve ur bad habits.
2006-10-29 22:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by sima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to let go of some one you love but sometimes you just have to move on. If you love the other guy tell him and make him tell you where you stand. It is not right for him to just lead you on like that. but you have to make the choice to move on. no one can do that for you.
2006-10-29 17:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the past go. Take the lead and learn to love yourself.
2006-10-29 18:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident I even have, i think like that many of the time, and from one in all my pals, i talk over along with her, and it sounds like she ignores me and starts off yet another convo approximately her different buddy, love is each and every so often a lost emotion
2016-10-16 13:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋