so my girlfriend and i have been going out for 6 and a half months and i introduced her to my best friend who is a girl and now theyr all buddy buddy and stuff and its kinda bugging me cause you know she my friend not hers am i just being weird or am i in the right
2006-10-29 17:29:29 · 20 answers · asked by link 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A controlling freak !
2006-10-29 17:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a little jealous is a natural thing. Since your girlfriend and your best friend are getting along, then there is no point of continuing to feel weird about it. The other people who answered are right in the sense that you should be happy that they are friends and not enemies. Try to do more fun things with your girlfriend and best friend and over time, you will be happy about their friendship.
2006-10-30 01:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by smooth 321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admittedly as a guy it is a little wierd when your better half becomes better friends with your friends then you, but you should consider yourself lucky. Given this friend of yours is a girl and your lady has chosen to accept her with open arms and not throw jealous fits everytime you go to see her I'd say your doing well.
I understand your feelings of losing a part of your friendship, but possibly you and your friend still have a common interest you can do once in a while separately. It is however inevitable though that your girlfriend will become friends with your friends and you hers because both of you are now a package deal. That's just how relationships go, but as I said it's great that she's getting along with her. There's nothing worse then a mate making you choose me or your friends.
Good luck bro.
2006-10-30 01:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by FrancisWolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being weird. Most people wouldn't have a problem with their friends liking their significant other. At least it's not the other way around with them hating each other. Could it be that you're jealous that they are spending time together instead of with you?
2006-10-30 01:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you have such a down to earth girlfriend who isn't jealous or suspicious of your female friend. You're not being weird, but let things run their course for awhile and then see how things go between you all.
2006-10-30 01:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lyf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being wierd and you need to really think about which girl you like more because it sounds like you are attracted to both. Anyway, its a good thing to have your girlfriend be friends with your friend-girl. Lighten up.
2006-10-30 01:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you got it so good and don't even realize. That's great they're getting a long. Think like a guy and try to find a way to have a sleepover with all three.
2006-10-30 01:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by FeeFee le Mew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the problem. Would you rather they didn't get along? That really doesn't make any sense.
Your being jealous of their friendship reminds me of adolescent kids who can't stand it if their friends have other friends besides them.
2006-10-30 01:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being weird.
Stop being jealous! You should be happy that she's friends with her instead of saying you can't hang out with her b/c she's a girl.
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2006-10-30 01:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your jealous of them becoming friends.
2006-10-30 01:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by star_utsf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋