Ok, i like this girl in my school but im afraid she is going to say no!!!
I need to know when should I tell her, like should i ask her if she can come with me for a walk or should i take her to the park and tell her?
and also, like if she accepts to go for a walk, when should i tell her that i love her?
and how should i tell her? I mean many of u are going to say "well just tell her u love her" but i dont think its that easy.
what words or how should i tell her/?? help please :)
2006-10-29 17:23:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know her! we have been friends
2006-10-29 17:30:00 · update #1
wow...thanks dave p :)
2006-10-29 17:48:26 · update #2
I don't know how much this will apply to your situation, but I was having dinner with my sister and her roommate the other day (they're both in their 20s) and they were talking about how they both hate when men directly ask them out (as in, "Want to go out tonight?"). They like it when the guy invites them along to something that they already have planned because it doesn't feel as fake or contrived as the guy actually asking them out directly.
So if you don't have the nerve to say, "I like you, want to go out?" you might play it a little more casual. Say something along the lines of, "A few of my friends were planning to watch a movie Saturday, want to come?", or "We're going hiking tomorrow, want to bring some of your friends along?" Of course make sure you actually have something planned. If she says no because she has something else planned, then you can try again with something else another time, but if she says no because she doesn't want to go with you, then it might be the wrong time to try asking her out.
Good luck!
2006-10-29 17:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to just ask her, be sincere about it though. look her in the eye's and ask her out somewhere, a movie is usually a good start. show her that your really interested in her and be sensitive to her needs (this is after she agrees to go out with). so be strong and build up some confidence, (cause girls like that) and ask her, and be sure to use her name. the worse she can say is no, and theres plenty more fish in sea. just don't be afraid and when she does say yes treat her like a princess, cause after all, women (or in your case girls) are truely precious creatures.
2006-10-30 01:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by dave p 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi raven,, tell you something, first of all , just ask her for a walk, just talk about what do like and ask her about what does she like, trying to talk friendly , so she wont be scare, after that, just express your feeling littler by littler , ask her if she wants something to drink or eat,, and them when you guys get relax, you tell her, how do you feel ´because of her, look her into her eyes and express or just say what you need to say......i think that´s a better wayy...
2006-10-30 01:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Haydee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her alone, the walk is good but NEVER tell a girl you LOVE her when your gonna ask her to be your gf, its just way too soon.
my personal favorite: "well i like you and i was wondering how
you felt about that?" dont just blurt it out work up to it man...
2006-10-30 01:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by 约瑟夫 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no need to say ~ i love you ....
Use your action to prove....
Dated her more often ---> Try be as close to her ----> in time hold her hand while walking at park ---> She's know.
is this an old ways ???? hehe
2006-10-30 01:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by peter71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk first and stick to simple things at first so as not to scare her off.. if you keep dating and youre both over 17 then tell her in ten days..
2006-10-30 01:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her out. then maybe after a long time of that you can tell her you love her. but if you're just friends she might get scared.
2006-10-30 01:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Juliet_Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you plan an outing with her and a few other of your friends. That why there's no pressure and you can see if you have common interest and chemistry.
2006-10-30 01:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her out first..the i-love-you is a totall no no..not yet..wait until u guys know each other better, and that ur feeling some positive attention from her..just ask her when she's alone..
2006-10-30 01:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by LadyN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all if youre not dating her even, i wouldnt tell her you love her. that might scare her. its best to just ask her out..and if she says no..theres always the rest of your life
2006-10-30 01:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋