I'm scared of what I'll do, that I'll end up with more scars or worse. Only I can't call anyone, or a hotline or anything, cause my parents will hear, and I don't want them to know, and don't say I should tell them cause you don't know me or them, but I don't know what to do, and I don't even know why I feel like this anyway so I don't know what I could even say to anyone about it if I could talk to anyone. I'm scared and I need to talk to someone only I can't, not just cause I don't have anyone to talk to but also cause I wouldn't know what to say if I did, and what can I do?
2006-10-29 17:23:12 · 24 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can't talk to anyone cause I don't know what to say
2006-10-29 17:31:02 · update #1
You can't be serious..I read all of your questions...eithier u r trying to get attention or you really need mental help. Pleas do not hurt yourself, that won't solve anything please talk to a school counselor or something they won't judge u. Please seek help and don't expect to find real help on this site.
2006-10-29 17:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by KatieJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you, if you call a crisis hotline, they are trained at talking to people. They know the right things to say and the questions to ask to get you talking. They arent just going to sit on the other end of the phone waiting for you to speak.
I started going to a psychiatrist many years ago and I was scared to death. When I started going to a councelor I didnt know what to expect cause I'm not good at talking to strangers, especially about my problems. This woman was amazing. She made me feel so comfortable and I could tell she really cared. She knew all the right things to say to get me to talking without making me feel uncomfortable. How will you ever know, if you dont try? You have control of hanging up the phone if you dont like talking to the other person. Once you start talking it is amazing at how much better you feel by simply talking. Talk therapy is a wonderful thing. I hope you will do something. I waited until I was 29 to get help because I too was afraid to tell someone how I felt. My problems started about the age of 5 or 6. PLEASE dont wait that long. You dont have to live your life miserable like I did.
2006-10-29 17:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be afraid to talk to someone about what is troubling you. If you are confused about what you are feeling you need to speak to a counselor or call a suicide hotline. I know it can be embarassing or you may even feel guilty for feeling the way you do but do not keep this information bottled up. You can get counseling that will help you through this or at least get on some medication that will make it possible to heal yourself.
2006-10-29 17:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by ravendark_82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're rite. One can't tell you how to solve your problem using a scanty information you give.But I can tell you this: You are in the right direction. You know the consequence of hurting yourself. You are few steps away from the solution. Try to get rest. Try to do things you used to do.There must be a good reason for such 'behavior'. Ask yourself how and when this urge to hurt yourself started. How do you define a friend? From your own scanty information I can freely deduce that you're a caring person. Such persons have very trusted friend/s. You said you don't know how to tell to (others). Try to be with your friend/s more times than usual. In one or another way they would get some information that you're in some kind of problem. And they would push you to tell them. Try to read how stressed people are treated ( I'm not telling you that you're stressed) and if you think you're stressed, consult the appropriate physician. One more thing: try to analyze the price you would be paying by not telling your parents or friends. Positive thinking is the best remedy.
2006-10-29 18:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by PAUL J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just read all of your questions. I work with young people who feel just like you do... and who find that they feel better when they cut themselves. I have learned a lot from them. What they say helps them is: 1). Immediately find something to do to distract yourself (these girls I work with write in a journal, draw, paint, even read) 2). You do need to find someone to talk to about it (even if you are under 18 you will still have patient confidentiality). Oh, and the more you cut yourself, the guiltier you feel about it in the future, which may lead you to want to cut again. It can be a vicious circle. Take care of yourself soon, so it will not continue.
2006-10-29 17:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to hurt yourself you need to tell someone so that they can take you to the nearest hospital with a Psychiatric Unit. You say that you are scared of what you will do and you can't talk about it because you don't know what to say so how can we help you?
You need to let your parents know how you are feeling so that they can get you some help.
When I was sixteen my mother walked in on me in the bathroom and caught me trying to slit my wrists. She ignored the warning signs and the suicidal ideations continued well into my thirties with several attempts without success.
I finally ended up in the hospital and got the help that I needed. I am Bipolar and have Psychotic episodes in which I want to hurt myself not other people.
Please talk to your parent and let them know what you are feeling is real and tell them now. If you need someone to talk to e mail me at Shinningstar33160@yahoo.com, I will try to help you. Please tell someone.
2006-10-29 17:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you should like go to the Navy like me. I was just like you I think I was worse. Yea I know that all people say u are gona get kill in **** but the navy and all the military teaches you to become a better person. U will straighten out and feel different. I just suggest so it's up to u.
2006-10-29 17:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you have got to go get help. Your parents can help you out in this. If my daughter was going through this, I would want to know. Talk to a teacher at school that you trust or a counciler, just an adult somewhere. Someone that you can trust.
2006-10-29 17:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by jesus_freak_az 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone you can talk to. God always listens. even though you can't see him he is everwhere. You need to go get help. You will get better if you come out about it! Trust me no life is worth wasting. Whatever is bothering you you need to just take it all in and know that everything will be fine.
2006-10-29 17:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a park and say there admiring the nature n a wind chime will help you..buy one or two wind chime n hang it near ur window n whenever u feel alone just listen to da sound if u dnt want to meet anyone...and hey make friends on net like u hv hi5.com
2006-10-29 17:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by krittiangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go online and chat with people, meet new people, then maybe you will meet someone you can trust enough to tell your problems too, you say not to talk to your parents ; if you cant talk to them then move out. nearest childrens hospital( if you're under 18) they can help you also. at least do something for yourself it's you and only you, noone else can help you out of your problems, they can only give you advice!!!!
2006-10-29 17:36:47 · answer #11 · answered by rattagous70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋