I have a female friend who likes me a lot but I'm only 34 and she's like 55 I usually date women my age group so is it wrong for me not to go out with this lady?
2006-10-29 17:21:48 · 22 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GO FOR IT.
2006-10-29 17:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with right or wrong. It's all about compatibility. Are you attracted to her? Are you compatible with her? Do you have things in common? Do you realize she is old enough to be your mother?
It *is* quite an age difference and odds are that it wouldn't withstand a long term relationship, but nothing is impossible. (Just improbable.)
If you feel like testing the waters, if you feel the attraction, there probably is nothing anyone can say to change your mind, but realize it will probably just be a "fling" and (hopefully) will end in friendship.
2006-10-29 17:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. Life is too short to be worrying about age differences. She probably has some good wisdom and experience to share with you. Go out with her and have fun.
2006-10-29 17:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by smooth 321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My philosophy about this is: if the woman is old enough to could have been your mother (20 yrs or older) then she's too old for you. I kind of even cut it off at 15 even. It doesn't matter if she is attractive to you or not. She would be too old for you. Date someone more your age!
2006-10-29 17:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her back, why not? One's age doesn't matter in the matters of the heart. Go for it man!
2006-10-29 17:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by nascent26 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would it be wrong.If you dont want to,,you dont have to.My general rule is never go with anyone old enough to be your parent or young enough to be your child.And never anyone under age ever.
2006-10-29 17:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is heart and not age. It's not wrong even if you don't want to go out with her or want to =) Don't worry.
2006-10-29 17:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Este 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it honey - women are better with age, like wine and cheese. Good luck! ♥
2006-10-29 17:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you like and are attracted to her you should take her out and see what develops. If you don't have any feelings other than being friends you should let her know.
2006-10-29 17:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you like her back, then go ahead! There is no law that you have to be close in age. If you don't feel anything for her but she still likes you, just forget it.
♥kayla♥
2006-10-29 17:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jelly 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are saying going out as a friend , no problem.
But you shouldn't date a woman that old for your age. It is uncomfortable.
2006-10-29 17:23:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋