My social anxietys are so bad I can't even go outside?

Question

I am 14 and have had this for about a couple years in the past year I have been completely homebound I had to drop public school and enter independant education. I am now also taking SSRI's(serotonin) because I have been diagnoised with Body Dysmorphic Disorder and Social Anxiety Disorder. When I am outside or around people I feel as if they are all laughing at the way I look and I am so unspeakibley hideous that I am unable to be sceen by other humans. If you don't know what Body Dysmorphic Disorder then read here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_dysmorphic_disorder
Not to mention this has effected my school work and overall functioning I am also un-able to get a haircut either it is so overwhelming. I know get haircuts from my dad(and he is not even good at it) Am also in counceling and going to be in Cognitive Behavourial Therapy soon but these anxietys are so over-whelming I can't do anything every morning I feel like suiciding because my parents fight all day and am bored ALOT.

Answer 1

If you are still feeling this way, you might want to consider that the meds you are taking are not the "correct" ones for you. There are many, many meds out there and each person is different. It may take years to find the "right" combination for you, but once you find it, you'll be glad you kept trying. Also, pay attention during Cog Behav Therapy, use the skills they teach you, and you should see improvement as well.

Answer 2

I think those disorders have made you prematurely mature. lolz.
Generally all ppl have insecurities about their bodies/looks.
You're only 14, you've got a whole life ahead of you. Try not to focus on your body image but your personality. Your inner qualities. You sound very intelligent and smart. I think thats cool.
You feel like suiciding?! I feel so sorry for you. Pliz dont suicide, that would be absolutely sad. And try not to worry about what other ppl think of your appearance. Whats more important is whats inside of you. That you're a good human being with nice characteristics eg. honest, helpful, kind, smart, intelligent, funny etc. You get bored alot? Well then try to get some new hobbies.
You really have alot of problems..gosh!
Pray to god. Jesus is always there during the darkest times. Try reading the bible.

Answer 3

wow. I am sorry to hear your situation. I can relate with the depression and anxiety. All I can say is dont hurt yourself because eventually you will overcome and when you do you will be able to get through anything. Stay with the meds, eat right, and keep seeing a therapist. As for your parents I had a have a set exactly like that and it still messes with me. If your antidepressant isnt working, you need to find one that does. I went through 5 and finally ten years later I found one that works. Wellbutrin

Answer 4

The fact that you posted this question shows that your willing or want to change.So the question boils down to why you haven't?I would think this is a psychological issue.Which is a reasonable assumption.The prob is, how much will power do you have to change yourself?Heres something that might help.Set a goal for yourself(ex: gain 10pounds of muscle in 2month,Or read 100pages of a boring textbook).If you can will yourself to do things that you don't enjoy, then you can will yourself to face society.Remember, only way to change, is to act upon the plan of action.Theres a dif between thinking u can do it and actually doing it.Best of luck.

Answer 5

I have Anxiety depression. I been trying this technique called Emotional Freedom Technique it does sound crazy but has helped me a lot. These links explain it better.

Answer 6

There are specialist that can help. Find one that can help. People out do care and carry a heavy heart to find your answers.

Answer 7

http://www.cchr.org

I am sorry that this is happening to you....there are remedies out there...but I don't agree with taking medication for this type of situation.
Good luck .....