2006-10-29 16:49:36 · 29 answers · asked by prizedcow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, wait at least until it's worth it and you can trust the gal/guy to not only be loyal to you, but also to marry you. I'm a 43 year old virgin, and I'm still waiting. If I can wait, you can wait.
2006-10-29 16:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you're 33 and still a virgin, then I would say that you've waited long enough. You could end up 50 and still a virgin. Ask yourself this: Do I want to get married? Do I want to have children?
If the answer to these questions is Yes, then you may want to stop waiting. Get out, have some fun, and live your life.
Besides, by being one of those 30-something virgins, you make people think that there is something wrong with you.
I'm not one of them, but I'm worried that you could be waiting forever.
2006-10-30 01:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your lifestyle and situation. But take into account if you never get marry then what? It is better to find a guy you love and passionate about don't worry about the ring yet. But if waiting until you get married to have sex is important to you than by all means save yourself for that special person. I' am a 20 year old virgin and I'am waiting for someone special I love and trust. Do whatever feels right to you but have fun, hang in there and be safe.
2006-10-30 00:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes Dude... Wait. Don't give in to your urges, when you find the right woman and get married then when you do have sex it will be meaningful.... Trust me. Its better to have an awesome night of true lovemaking with your wife than a series of pointless sex-romps that leave you empty and the same way you were before you did it. Don't worry about people who try to convince you that you are missing anything because you are not. you merely have more control over your carnal nature, and are therefore stronger. And God will be pleased with you.Keep it up bro, the will come, don't ever lose faith in that.
2006-10-30 00:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by empangeniguy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, wait until you're married. It will be that much more special. And don't be afraid of it either. Your first time has probably been built up to be this monumentally traumatic thing... believe me, if you 2 really love each other, and I mean REALLY, then it will be fabulous, because it will be the 2 of you. No expectations, no basis for comparison, no worries.
Hang in there hon! :)
2006-10-30 00:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, good for you, I was only with one person and I thought that was outstanding! But, I guess that doesn't answer your question. Honestly, I don't think anyone can, it's a personal choice. I could tell you reasons why you shouldn't * If your not in love *If he is not in love with you *If you have not been in a relationship, long enough to know him/her and where they have been? And the list goes on... To me sex is not casual, it's very personal , between to people deeply in love. And you just don't do it, to do it, despite what others may say. Im sure if they could turn back the clock, they would. Follow your heart!
2006-10-30 01:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Aces 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u can't wait and have to lose it then why not lose it... lost it with someone ure dating or like though... dont lose it to some prostitute or something. :-P but u should also consider waiting if u can. Sex is great, but its better when its with a person u love, and even better with the person your married too... if ure gettign married soon or are plannign to get married sometimes in the future with someone then why not wait.
2006-10-30 00:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by X Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how you see sex and marriage. if you think virginity is the one of the most important gifts you can ever give your spouse-to-be, then wait until marriage. but if you feel that it is not that important in marriage, meaning it does not matter if she/he is a virgin or not, then do it so long as you know what you are getting into and so long as you are ready for consequences if ever. it really depends on your values and morals.
2006-10-30 00:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by frandonn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is HELL NO, try and gain some experience (not too much) before you get married. Your partner will benefit from it I'm sure. Go get em!
Go and rent out "40 year old virgin" and then decide for yourself!
Good luck!
2006-10-30 00:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by stevebrit2004 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good for you! Not for me! You have to do what feels right, and going by what you believe in. Marriage is basically a certificate that binds you to another, and makes it harder to seperate if you ever decide to do so. Real love is in the heart, and that's what you should follow.
2006-10-30 00:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋