2006-10-29 16:47:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be honest with her and find another girlfriend
2006-10-29 16:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a woman, in my experience, saying the L word is a BIG thing, a VERY BIG thing for her. She has committed to you and now you have a problem as to how to respond As a guy, I feel your pain in this as I have been in a similar situation. The answr is this, be sensitive, gentle, and let her know you are not exactly in the same place she is at this moment in time, but leave your options open for a deeper relationship in the future if that is really how you feel. In my past, when I used the word "love" with a woman I really meant it, and it all worked out well.. Sometimes she said it before me, but the end result was the same. If you a true feel love for this woman, then you have to do the right thing and tell her, otherwise you are acting out a fraud.
Honesty is the best policy - Ben Franklin
2006-10-29 17:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by rowlfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some cooking lessons.
Find a new girlfriend.
Make sure to follow the order listed, otherwise you may starve.
2006-10-29 16:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by the_critter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How unfair and selfish you are! Get yourself together. You want cake and eat it too. You are a user too. Atleast have the decency to be honest with her. There are way to many people like you in this world. Doesn't your conscience bother you and how can you look at yourself in the mirror.
O'hock
2006-10-29 16:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it will never be possible to love her you should break up with her so she can find someone else. If you think you could love her then maybe you just need more time for that to develop.
2006-10-29 16:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question...
Carl's Junior was created for guys like you. Get yourself a $6 burger and a really good looking gal. You can have it all.
2006-10-29 16:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by laramsfan1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg...thats just a jerk thing to say. If you dont love her...don't stay with her and use her. You are just leading her on. That sucks.
2006-10-29 16:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Damien's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest to her!!! don't hurt the heart that doesn't hurt your heart... be fair! explain to her what you feel, don't let her expect that your loving her the same way she do...it'll hurt her a lot... set her free and find someone who will truly love her and you too move on!!!
2006-10-29 16:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get in the kitchen and make you a pie.
2006-10-29 16:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk!
Dump her and save her the pain.
She deserves better.
2006-10-29 16:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by Norah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋