where i live its skinny tan beautiful italians.
thats more than 85% of the population in my town.
im half german and english.
so im lighter skinned, blue eyes, with brown hair.
and im pretty, i think. (not to sound narsistic)
but here, in the town full of italians, i don't stand a chance.
and i've moved alot and every other place that i have lived i have gotten alot of attention and everyone thought i was really pretty.
but here... im just another average looking girl.
who know one really likes.
2006-10-29 16:43:48 · 16 answers · asked by hey there 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how you value and how you see yourself is how others will see you and value you. real beauty is more than physical. it may sound cliche but it is true. your attitude does matter. if you feel good about yourself and you exude confidence, then people start to notice it. but if you worry a lot and you carry that "baggage" of having to measure up with every other girl in town, then definitely it will make you feel unpretty which will definitely show.
and by the way, i am sure you really are pretty =) smile, girl!
2006-10-29 16:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by frandonn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like much of a question, but here goes: Get a dark tan, fake or otherwise, dye your hair dark brown or red and get contact lenses that darken your eyes to hazel and speak with an italian accent. hehehe Hey, it might be fun!! ;)
2006-10-30 00:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're anything BUT average, especially since you don't look like everyone else. Use that to your advantage. Play up your looks w/ the right makeup, hair, etc. Be confident. Act like you need no one, then you'll be noticed by EVERYONE.
Don't sell yourself short, ok?
2006-10-30 00:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre not average just different than what people are used to there. I would try to stand out. Flaunt the differences. Or more back to where u were.
2006-10-30 00:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well, you have to like you "first." But I'm curious, why do you want to be the girl that "every" guy wants to be with? It's not "that" important. Besides, If you're the girl "every" guy wants to be with, there won't be any special guy, if it's every guy. Do you understand? Just relax, someone will come along when you're least expecting it, and that "one" guy will be enough, okay?
2006-10-30 00:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh who cares.. it's not all about looks!!!! Just be yourself... at the end of the day a decent guy is going to want you for whats inside not whats on the outside.. Be confident about who you are and make the best of what you allready have.
2006-10-30 00:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i like you, and thats all that really matters, because i'm the guy every girl wants to be with, and not in the macho way, but i'm just a great guy, nice, sweet, and honest to the core, not narsistic either, but i'm where its at, my mom says i'm a real catch
2006-10-31 21:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by chrissabolich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what is wrong with being yourself as for being the girl every man wants . you dont want that in time the men will talk about you like a dog men are like that pick wiseley in your choice of a man not men. my opion?
2006-10-30 00:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still starving for attention like a desperate high school drama queen?
Or you are looking for one guy that can be your man?
2006-10-30 03:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be that girl that every guy likes, then you're being fake and not yourself. You can dress sexy and you'll attract every guy, but they're only gona want to be with you for one reason, sex. If that's all you want, then more power to you. But everybody has their own likes and you can't please everybody, be yourself.
2006-10-30 00:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by bloodsanctum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋