we have been broken up for 3 months. last night at her birthday/halloween party i see her macking all over this other guy. somehow i manage to get her cellphone and see that she has over 900 txt messages spanning over the last 4 months to guys saying things like "ooo my *** still hurts from last night" "ya i ditched my crazy ex where we meeting" some of them while we were still living together!!
yet the whole time we have been broken up, she flat out lied to me about seeing other people and lead me on and even had sex with me (ewww) not to mention she gave me genital warts and everyone else she has screwed around with. yet for some crazy reason I CANT GET OVER HER!!!! What the hell is wrong with me?? what can I do to get over this giant slut?? please help
2006-10-29 16:42:33 · 13 answers · asked by matt v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need a ********, porn star style by a hot chick. Maybe a few. (Hot chicks, or blow jobs? Either one naturally.)
2006-10-29 16:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just have one question, HOW OLD ARE YOU AND HOW OLD IS THIS GIRL???? If she is young, trust me the karma will come back and bite her in the ***. As for you maybe you have some sick addiction for someone , but let it go it is nooo good for you trust me! They never change and you will stuck in that deep pit if you even think of going back to her or it!!!! I know 3 years is a long time, but think of how much more time you would have wasted if you stuck with her. Drop the dead weight and go find someone else that will respect you.
2006-10-29 16:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by baxman11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel really bad for you. There's nothing wrong with you still being attached. She was apart of your life for three years and its only natural that you'd still care for her. Unlike your ex you actually had something invested in the relationship. So, you have the right to mourn the loss of it. You missing her is just the beginning of the healing process. You'll go from that to having disdain for her and from there you'll move into the confusion state but ultimately you will move on. Try to see the three years you gave her as a major learning experience. From there promote yourself to the upper division in terms of dating and hopefully you'll find yourself with someone who deserves you-next time. Good Luck with everything.
2006-10-29 16:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its hard to get over sm1 u once truly loved but u hav 2 try hard 2 4get her, what she did to u is unacceptable and very painful. i dnt think u shud even consider going back 2 her, try and move on i bet thr are a lot of gals out there who wud luv u more than she ever did. its hard i no but if u put ur mind 2 it u will make it. i bet she never even thinks about u nowadays, she is busy searching 4 guys 2 .... her!!! good luck!!!
2006-10-29 16:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by phats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
matt: Firstly; watch where you park your "car" next time. Can you just imagine what she was doing BEFORE the final 4 mos. with you ? You can't expect to go fishing in an Herring barrow and take out salmon. One other thing. Face it - it's o v e r , quit chasing her around she doesn't love you ( or not as much as the guys she was banging while she was with you). Get used to it.
2006-10-29 16:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if memories cud b erased, there wud've been no pain around. dont u think ? memories take time 2 erase, pain takes time 2 heal. u'l have 2 live dis pain for smetime cos theres nuthn ne 1 can do 2 ease it. even if u start dating sme1 u'l still wont be able 2 get over da pain ur going through, its better u get urself deply occupied wid smethn 2 get dis pain out of u, da more ur occupied da more easy it wud b for u 2 get over dis pain. but trust me it wont be easy, for da night will haunt u, but wid time things will ease
2006-10-29 16:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible, yet I feel your pain. It's just proven facts of how our society is today. I'm sorry you have to go through with all of this but you have to get over her. Maker her think your guys's break up isn't affecting you and she'll begin to start feeling the affects. I don't know how else to explain it but you need to get over her. Think of all of her negative qualities. She must've not loved you enough to care about your feelings....
2006-10-29 16:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey man... i was in love with a giant ***** too. but time heals all wounds. and meeting new girl(s) that aren't bitches helps too. just don't even talk to her, she's not worth your time. do anything else to get your mind off her. some females are so f'in deceitful it's amazing.
DON'T do like me, calling her up all pathetic and begging her to take you back! take the high road of INDIFFERENCE!
2006-10-29 16:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a ho to me. Go get some new girls. And wear a condom. NEVER TRAVEL DOWN THE SAME ROAD TWICE.
2006-10-29 16:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
THIS IS NORMAL TO FEEL AS YOU DO YOU WERE WITH HER FOR 3 YEARS , SO REGARDLESS OF HOW SHE
WAS, IT WAS A STRONG FOR YOU. BUT KNOW IT TIME
TO ,MOVE ON, SHE NOT WORTH ANY MORE STRESS.
TRUST ME, SHE OUT OF YOUR LIFE SO SHOULD BE
VERY THANKFUL THAT SHE GONE. AND SOMEONE OTHER
GUY HEADACHE.
2006-10-29 16:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋