answers on a postcard please
2006-10-29 16:31:02 · 28 answers · asked by sadie_jade28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you're looking for love in all the wrong places. Now, there is one place you can find the perfect man and that is in church. Once you get involved in church activities and realize that you're happy and a man is only another accessory that you can live without then it will be time to find Mr. Right. But don't rush it. Men will realize that you're rushing it and you'll get dog, frogs and hogs. Which are nasty, lazy and good for only three things eat, mate, and die.
2006-10-29 16:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lady B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have fallen into the "all the men I fancy turn out to be gay" sydrome.
Men are NOT decent, especially not heterosexual men. They have bald patches, smelly feet etc.
As you get older and wiser, you are becoming more "discerning" and this makes it less and less likely you will meet mister right.
Maybe you are looking for someone who is 100% right . But you should look for someone who is maybe 75% right.
I think your standards are too high. As long as they can ring your bell, who cares if they are "decent"? Have fun. Nothing's forever you know, -ESPECIALLY not human relationships.
ps the LAST place you are going to find a decent eligible batchelor is in a church!!!.
2006-10-29 17:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
postcard? what? sounds like you have conviced yourself there are no decent guys left. If you truly believe that then you will never find one. You attract that which you hold in your mind to be true. Change your mind and you will change your life. Its a scientific fact.
2006-10-29 16:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're tryin to hard. it could also be that you're too picky about the guys you date, I'm not saying lower your standards, but maybe rethink them and see if that is what is keeping you from finding someone decent. No man is perfect, (hell most are so far from perfect its not even funny), your approach to finding someone could also be scaring most men off...just sit back and be nonchalant about it and eventually a guy will take an interest in this attractive yet aloof woman. Be someone of mystery.
2006-10-29 16:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just keep bumping into guys you find attractive in Tesco with your trolley. There is nothing like a hard whack on the shins to bring out the true man from behind his defences.
If he gets angry and blames you smile, apologise and walk away. If he winces then smiles as he rubs his shin, he could be the guy, always presuming he finds you as attractive as you 'think' you are.
We good guys are everywhere, you've just got to winkle us out. Good luck
2006-10-29 20:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking in all the wrong places. You will never find good guys in night clubs or on the internet. Instead, you should get involved in something you enjoy and meet men that way. Also make sure you are looking for a whole person, not just fixating on looks or fashion.
2006-10-29 18:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Bob M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like everytime I hear this, the person asking is looking in places where decent people are less likely to be found. Don't be scared when friends try to set you up. Try personal ads, dating services, etc. Just keep trying and you'll find the one!
2006-10-29 16:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by tipigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Miss Attractive 30year old,
You're still very young! My neighbors told me to go to church with them and meet a nice man.
God will understand your intentions at heart.
Take your time to get to know the man and show him how you want to be treated by not accepting those traits that you dont like. They may just be bad habits on his part. Find someone kind and stick around for more of it.
Theyre out there. Good luck,
Vty, Cheshire ;)
2006-10-29 16:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because Sadie, you haven't really tried to, on the outside. Maybe not on the inside, either. It's also possible that your translation of decent needs to be checked and corrected. In essence, you've been trying out the wrong men, and living in the wrong city or state.
2006-10-29 16:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry no postcard. If you want a nice guy, well here I am.
2006-10-29 16:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋