Ok my problem is that my life sucks and my life is going down hill and everything is going bad in my life. And I just don't know what to do or what to live for anymore (besides my family) and I just keep wishing that I was dead. And I am going to a point where I think the only right thing to do is commit suicide. And I know that people say that its "wrong" or say that I should think that "life is worth living" but I think that the world and everyone I know and love will be better off without me. And I'm also starting to think that my family is going to leave me soon and if they do I will have no one because I don't have a girlfriend or any friends of my own. And I'm also starting to think that there is no god. So my question is what should I live for? Who should I live for? And does anybody have proof that god is real? So thats what I'm thinking and asking myself but another reason I want to kill myself is because of a girl who I care about alot who wants nothing to do with me anymore.
2006-10-29 16:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I have proof god is real, look around you.... look at your life and look at mine, this past summer was bad and im still living.... whether you believe it or n;ot your family does love you.Many people will miss you and You should live.
2006-10-29 16:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is hard to classify animals killing themselves as suicide, even when they make a choice to do something that takes their lives. Whales will beach themselves but is it suicide? Probably not, more likely there is something wrong with them internally. I had a fish once that continually jumped out of the fish bowl, literally 3-4 times a day. Was he committing suicide? Yes but we kept putting him back and he kept jumping out. I put him in a pond in our yard and he is still in there. So he wasn't committing suicide, he was trying to get out of somewhere that he didn't want to be. Now I would agree that they participate in passive suicide. For example, when two older dogs live together and one dies. Sometimes the other refuses to eat or drink until they die. So it appears that they are depressed over the loss of the other and cause themselves to die. However, this is not really suicide and instead an animal not wanting to eat or drink because they don't know where the other is. So I would say no, they do not commit suicide in the same manner as people do. They simply have a limited capacity and are trying to change something in their situation.
2016-05-22 06:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you shouldn't commit suicide and I know it too. You have a lot to live for. Can you talk to your family? We've all had break-ups with girl/boy friends and survive them. There is someone out there who will some day love you for who you are. But you won't find anyone if you are going to be depressed. So talk to someone, a family member, friend or councelor.
By the way, there is a God. Pray to Him and He will answer. It won't be right away and maybe not in the way you want Him to, but He will. God put you in this drivers seat. Make the right turns and you will be OK.
2006-10-29 16:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do to get this girls attention is; start flirting with other girls. She won't want that, because she sounds like she had you by her pinky finger. Please try this, because if you do, you might find that it's pretty fun to be around other girls again and how possessive the x really was. If this works for you,you then have a reason for living again. You'll be in happy town again. One more thing, give your x the cold shoulder too, justice is grand. Just put you mind on a goal and strive for that goal, I have been where you are at and it's not fun. I know you don't want to make your mom cry, do you? from what's your saying, guy, your free!!!! Have fun, don't let HER(X) get that feeling that she won at your expense, don't do that!!!!
2006-10-29 16:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by mdzevolveddammit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't. Even though it may seem like nobody cares about you, i can guarantee there are. I know the living God..and i know He sends people into each of our lives to love, even if they don't know it. There are random people that He has placed in my life to love, and they don't know it. Please...and heres the "proof" that God is real. The occult is very powerful (which is Satan). How do you think spells get cast upon people? It is Satan who works in that way. Now tell me....if there is a Satan, there must be a God. He is counteracting everything that Satan is doing. And guess what? He loves you. He loves you so much that He died for you, and Hes speaking to you right now in your heart. Listen. Listen for His voice. Hes crying out for you right now. You are on His mind. Please make the right decision...do you need a place to find friends? Hook up in a church...believe me, church is a place where people will accept you for who you are. I'll be praying for you.
2006-10-29 16:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by morethanitseems 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you are not feeling well. I also know that nothing that I can say will make you feel better. There are people who can help you. You need to find the mental health crisis line. There is one in every community. If you phone your local hospital, they can give you the number. You can call 24hrs a day, 7 days a week. Please call. It may take some time and effort, but you can feel better. I promise.
2006-10-29 16:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the common thread thru all that is your thoughts. Your thoughts are products of brain chemistry, and your chemistry is messed up. Youre displaying absolute thinking ("everything" is not bad in your life, and "the only thing to do" is not suicide.) Its almost never a good idea to kill yourself, its a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Gals are like the city bus...you missed that one, therell be another along in a few minutes.
2006-10-29 16:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by David B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. I made a mistake like that once let's just say it involved my wristes ands i was 13 now almost 14 i look at the scars and people look at me like i'm stupid and those scar's will alway's be there. Don't do that to yourself. My mom found me knocked out on the bathroom floor with blood everywhere i blamed her for saving me but now i thank her. Cause like thousands of people visisted me in the hospital. of course they a looked at me like i was retarded but i knew they cared and there was only one of my friends that understood Ben. And i love him for that. So no don't commit Suicide. It will always be there if you don't do it right or even if you do you will leave behind so much that you need.
2006-10-29 16:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by iguessi'mhere 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Tomorrow is another day. Take each day as it comes. Keep trying harder in life. This sorta "bad" things happens to most people. Just remember, "You are still here." And for a reason.
Seek God, try to do what is right. He will help you out.
2006-10-29 16:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by banjo_mccain 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm guessing high school to college age. And believe me... THINGS DO GET BETTER. I know that everyone says that and it seems ridiculous to you know, but they do. you will get through this time in your life, and you will feel better.
In the mean time, find someone to talk to. Your family, a counselor, a religious leader, someone. Talking helps.
2006-10-29 16:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by LynT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋