2006-10-29 16:01:52 · 12 answers · asked by sassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Make sure you have your own job and your own place before getting into this, it's dynamite.
Only DNA tests are definitive here. Both parents might lie to you.
My ADVICE is to bury your doubts and avoid checking up on it at all. If your father isn't your real father, maybe momma will tell you when she's on her death bed. You don't NEED to know.
2006-10-29 16:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all...think about the reasons you think he is not your real father..write them down and look at them.
Are they reasonable reasons to believe that he is not your real father..or are they silly things like.."He doesn treally look like me"..."we don't act the same"
You also could privatley talk to him..or your mom whoever your more comfterbul with.
If that doesnt work out for you..maybe either he is your real father..or they are waiting till your older to talk to you about it.
Good luck!
2006-10-29 16:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your mother im 34 yrs old and i found out the truth about my father 5 years ago. i just had this strange feeling come over me and began to compare myself with my siblings, i was the black sheep with thick wavy hair and dark skinned when all my siblingd were straight red and light skinned. i didnt really know how to deal with it so what i did is i asked my closest aunt and she just told me that i needed to ask my mother that kinda gave me an idea that there was more that i needed to know, and so i did. i was calm when i asked her and i told her that i didnt want her to lie to me. and she began to cry but she told me the truth. i never told my father that i found out the truth i didnt want to hurt him cause no matter what, he will always be my father cause he raised me. as my bio father i tried to talk to him but his wife denied it to me. so till this day i have yet to lay eyes on my bio father. i hope u find the answeres your looking for. good luck
2006-10-29 16:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. DNA test
2. why u doubting ur dad?
3. you dun love him?
answer these Q and you'll learn more just to know he's ur original father.
2006-10-29 16:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Aii29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a blood test done. If you can't afford it, go on The Maury Show.
2006-10-29 16:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. ask him 2. dna testing 3. why does it matter?
2006-10-29 16:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DNA profiling or ask your mom . She's the only one who knows.
2006-10-29 16:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by mamamia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA test
2006-10-29 16:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about getting a hair clipping & see if it matches yours.
2006-10-29 16:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA test. 99.9 % accurate
2006-10-29 16:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋