i know this girl and we have known each other for about 4 years. I am a freshmen in highschool and she only sees me as her best friend, i like her than u can ever imagine but she also likes this upper classman. She is beautiful, smart, funny, and has a great personality. wat should i do, im not the greatest lookin guy but there is nothing i can do, i sit behind her in class thinking what i should do but i cant figure it out. Please HELP!
2006-10-29 15:24:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her, even if she doesnt feel the same way ull feel better knowing she knows
2006-10-29 15:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by melanchollyXXmolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the bright side of things, she treats you as her best friend. that's a plus for you. sadly, many girls who think of a guy friend as their best friend stick to that notion - you're just a friend.
have you ever tried exressing how you feel towards her?
it's risky but may also be very rewarding.
risky because if she doesn't like the idea, it would make your situtation awkward and further jeopardize your friendship.
on the otherhand, she might just be waiting for you to make the move. this is what you should hope for.
in any case, it's really best to tell her how you feel and be prepared for the consequences.
tip: try asking a hypothetical question about her thoughts on the matter, ie, friends turning into lovers.
good luck
2006-10-29 15:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by flipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eric,
Honesty is always the best policy! Girls like guys that make them smile, laugh, are honest, and find sincere ways to make us feel special. Have you tried to find out what type of music she likes? or notice what color she wears the most? Once you pick up on these clues you cana try telling her how good she looks when she wears____, it's a great color on her! Girls like to be noticed and spoiled. After you get your foot in the door give her a funny card every now and then, to let her know you might be interested. SOUNDS SAPPY!! Good!! Girls really do like that. Good luck this year with the CHIX and don't worry about the upperclassman. They spend to much time on themselves trying to figure out who next on their list instead of making girls feel special..
2006-10-29 15:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by N_UrDreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. Your looks are going to change over time, I use to think this guy was kinda not the best looking guy when we were kids (high school) I found him on classmates.com and WOW he is a hottie now!!!! And I found a few that were hotties in school and now they are fat and bald and just ordinary people.People shouldn't judge by looks you should judge by the heart. I know i did, and i was so wrong, I regret it...Good Luck
2006-10-29 15:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by joni_usa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makeher feel important and special...Be yourself and try little by little, to let her know abt your feelings..When the right times comes then do tell her that u really like her because she has a great personality n dat she means some1 to u...Just be yourself and do tell her...Mayb she will hesitste but, if she finds in u some1 wid a personality, she'll say yes..Just be sure to tell her dat u like her not for her physique btw for her character.
2006-10-29 15:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude tell her your feeling that you like her she'll understand and apart from the topic never make a best friend make friends coz if you are in a trouble the best fren wud say the we 0had fun 2gether and blah blah but a friend will come to you and wud help u
wanna be my friend
2006-10-29 15:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, yo
2006-10-29 15:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋