My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years, and I love him with all of my heart. However, lately we have been having problems, for like the past few months. We argue a lot more often, and I don't know how to fix things. There is an age difference of 5 years, and he tends to be more of the "party type" and while I like to have fun, I don't like to drink, and he does. I don't want this relationship to end, but I don't want to continue on in a problematic relationship. Any advice?
2006-10-29 15:00:04 · 5 answers · asked by °kels° 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have talked about marriage, but then again with us fighting more lately, I dont' want to get married and us get worse... I don't know what to do. It seems like everytime there is a problem and I want to talk about it, he gets mad... Uh!! I hate this! It is so confusing!
2006-10-29 15:21:45 · update #1
If he likes to drink a lot and go out a lot to parties he needs some time to grow up. I'm not sure how old he is, but I personally would let him go so he can get all that partying out of his system and mature. Once I let go of someone, if he really wanted to be with me, I believe that he'll change and figure out what he needs to do and come back to me. If he doesn't, it wasn't meant to be.
2006-10-29 15:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should really ask yourself if the relationship is going anywhere?? You have been dating for two years-- have you lived together or thought about getting married or having kids or anything that may signify that your relationship is going anywhere.
I dont want to be mean or anything like that-- but the reason you may be fighting maybe because you want more and he doesn't know yet.
sometimes you need to just take a step back to see if your relationship is realistic.
if it is-- then if you are fighting a lot-- then you should just give each other space. let him go out with the boys on his own once and a while and you go out with your friends
then have some time that is just for the two of you. go to dinner and a movie or something
good luck
2006-10-29 23:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better get to talking with him. Communication is a must for a successful relationship. Tell him your concerns, just be careful not to accuse and listen to each other.
2006-10-29 23:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think bout the time, the way, n how he makes me fell in love with him....always bring a huge smile to my face! Let the problems sleep if there's no soution to it n always look forward to a brand new happy day....n all the best to you guys in trying to work things out.
2006-10-29 23:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reslove your problems with him peacefully. stay with him in bad time as you enjoyed him in good time.
2006-10-29 23:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by OrangeApple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋