I can't take anymore, I give up. I'm sick of trying and busting my A S S all for nothing. The only thing on my mind, is death. My family doesn't support me in what I love, but they want me to support them. I do my best to help them in anyway I can, then when I need something, even if its just a little support, I get sh*t on. I have worked my *** to the bone for my family, just so they could have food on the table and a roof over their head. Why, for once, can't I get a little support from them? Maybe a little " I'm proud of you" tossed in also. I just f*ucking give up.
2006-10-29 14:54:31 · 13 answers · asked by Perfectly Insane 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Ryan, don't give up. From past conversations you still have allot going for you. Please don't do this again. Talk to me, please.
Phil
2006-10-30 09:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The game of life is not over until its over. Tell what you think to your family if you have not already. If they won't give you a thank you and make an effort to support themselves, don't give them money! Or at least no more money than the bare minimum to keep them alive and under some sort of roof, most of which they could get from welfare. If they want more, make it clear they will either have to make it on their own or ask politey. You will feel like dirt when you tell them this, but it is the right thing to do: you are your own person. Don't let someone tell you otherwise, even if you care about them deeply.
And don't kill yourself, whatever you do. If you go nuts and kill yourself, your parents are no better off than if you just left them. If you just can't take it and decide to leave them, at least you make it out of this mess alive. Do the moral math: hungry family and dead self, vs. hungry family.
2006-10-29 23:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by Acraz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was feeling somewhat the same, then realized I was responsible for teaching them how to treat me so, knowing I couldn't change them, I changed me! Started doing stuff for me, things I enjoy. But what made me feel the best was doing things for others who really needed the help. Gave me that warm fuzzy feeling we all love to have knowing we've made someone's life brighter. Great to do things for those who truly appreciate it. And I always keep in mind that there are others who are far, far worse off than I am. So no more pity parties for me!!!! If you need help then seek it out, no one will think any less of you. No giving up, you hear!!??!! You have a purpose on this earth, you need to find it. And you will.
2006-10-29 23:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by MegD22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise would be to take it easy for the rest of the night. Try to get some sleep. Then try less to help your family if they don't appreciate it- that way the gap between what you do and what they appreciate won't be so bad. Then find other people like friends to appreciate what you do.
Your problems are not irreversible- some people's problems are. Chill.
2006-10-29 22:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm right there with you!! I went on "strike" for a week and let them see just how much s**t I do for them and forced them to fend for themselves!! I had more than a few anxiety attacks watching my house go to hell, but the week ended and once again I am back to catering to everyone Else's needs but my own. Life sucks!! No appreciation anywhere you look. If I was in your family I bet I would notice and appreciate keeping the universe on track!! What would they do without us?
2006-10-29 23:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Erin D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Describe too them a world without you. Try to mentally hurt them.
Maybe even take a small vacation for a week and they will relize.
2006-10-29 23:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything stupid. Talk to your doctor, minister or a friend, or the Samaritans. I felt like that once and now I'm glad I'm still alive.
2006-10-29 23:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by zee_prime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm proud of you for reaching out.
I'm proud of you for being honest.
It sounds like you need a lot more "me time" why not plan something special for yourself tomorrow??? I hope you feel better
2006-10-29 23:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by Viakin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ryan dont give up take a break for yourself.dont think of death .death is the end of life sometime we dont get appreciated for all the things we do but remember god loves you. i feel where you are coming from but dont give up things will get better.good luck
2006-10-29 23:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them taht you expect a little recognition for the good you do. Theyll get the pic.
hope things get better
~Sarah~
2006-10-29 22:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been there and still am going through it. you really really should go see a psych/doctor. they can help you. if u are really serious about killing yourself you MUST seek help.
2006-10-29 23:07:12 · answer #11 · answered by squishy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋