2006-10-29 14:40:43 · 5 answers · asked by lost soul 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
my friend is in the same situation. its not a good one. i just support her and tell her i can help anyway i can. but no one can really tell you how to leave him. you kinda just have to do it.
2006-10-29 14:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have money to support yourself, a place that you can go, not the place that the two of you stayed together, and a support system that wont quit, or a resolve to not to go back.
Leaving wont be easy, and it will be lonely and tough, but if it is a bad situation then the tough times will be worth it. Get out while you still can, too many women stay in a bad relationship because they are to afraid to leave and get hurt in the end.
2006-10-29 22:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful, even nice guys can turn abusive to you and/or the kids. Get help, from an organization, your relatives, someone who knows what to say and do.
You will need money, some way to support yourself, and a definite place to go where you will be safe, and he can't get to you.
I know of people who have done this, and they packed up and left while the boyfriend was away, and went to parents or a friend's place. There are women's shelters for abused women and their children out there, find one, if you fit that description.
Good luck.
2006-10-30 03:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by riversconfluence 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mean you don't really know how then here's an answer.
You make sure you have money, that you can support yourself and your chidren.
Then you leave him.
Unless he's physically, emotionally or verbally abusive.
In which case, there should be an organization near you that can take you and your children in immediately. Try http://www.endabuse.org/ for starters if this is you.
If not, just do it. Leave him.
2006-10-29 22:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to leave your boyfriend(bf) you must be fully indepen-
dent from him financially and morally..You must avoid your self for living in togetherness with an irresponsible bf.In line with your religion It is better if you get married with the one you love.By a formal and legal marriage you have a strong base for maintaining and demanding your rights and the rights of your kids..Freesex life style is weakened you position if something happened to you.
2006-10-29 23:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋