umm iam having trouble and i need help???
2006-10-29 14:30:48 · 10 answers · asked by taytay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well he iz mai best friend and he says that we are better off az friends does that mean that he really dosent like me or that he really cares about our friendship?
2006-10-29 14:46:02 · update #1
We've all been down that road before.
Those who say they havent,well,you know what they are;)
Being in love with someone is one of ways to keep us going
everyday. At least we know how to love. Amazing feeling!
Dont expect anything in return.
2006-10-29 14:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, love and human relations are complicated. There will be people who you like alot ( I wouldn't say love) and they may like you back, but not as much. Then again, there are people who adores you and you don't feel the same way about them.
I had just gone thr the same situation. I really liked a guy (way too young for me actually) and things were going OK for awhile and then he just stopped calling and we stopped seeing each other! I din have closure and it took a while to get him out of my system. I still think about him on occasion as I'm not seeing anyone now, it was torturous for a while but I dun feel the same way about him anymore.
My advice is that TIME will heal anything and everything. Especially if you like someone who isn't that into you. Stop all contact and do your own stuff. You'll wonder and you'll think about him, but as time passes, it'll get better. I can guarantee that.
2006-10-29 22:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by ikusburples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say it, but it happens. You are chosing to continue the pain by being in love with someone that doesnt love you back. Im sorry to say this also, but it takes two....
It take two people to make a relationship a relationship worth fighting for and having. Otherwise its a waist of one persons time and energy,.....and love.
You are going to have to be strong and let this person go. Stop going around them, get rid of anything that reminds you of them, and date other people. It will be hard at first, but eventually it gets so much easier, then you forget all about them. It can help if you have friends to talk to about this as well. You need a giant support system around you to keep you busy and help you get through this....but ultimately its your choice to make. good luck.
2006-10-29 22:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone love you back. You will only get hurt in the end if you try. Either they are going to love you, or not. There is no secret formula to having someone fall in love with you.
For example, this guy fell in love with me. Why?? I have no idea!! For two years, he did whatever I wanted, bought me what I wanted, gave me money, even got me an apt (that I moved another man into) trying to get me to love him. And at some point, in all honesty, I WANTED to love him just because he loved me so much. I grew to care for him, but never really love. He treated me better than ANY man...including my husband. But I couldn't love him. We cant control who we love, only how much, and in what degree we show it.
2006-10-29 22:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thers no guarantee when we give our love to another that it will be returned. relationships are risky. just because he doesn't love you, it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, don't base your self worth on one person. get out and date and meet others. things happen for a reason, that we don't always understand at the time.when one door closes another opens up. we will go through alot of relationships before we find just that special one. we really have no control over anyone, we can't make someone love us.
2006-10-29 22:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, he is saving you from some pain that he might cause you. As friends you might not have to go though a painful, relationship of breaking up if it does work. If he knows your deep love for him and he's not willing to love to back, then you guys being friends would be best for you!
2006-10-29 23:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to reality. All of us (ok maybe just me) have fallen for someone who does not love us back. There is no answer other than the fact that you cannot help who you fall in love with (inpoetry law #1: You can't control you heart or your colon).
So the answer is: it just happens.
If you fall in love with someone you are lucky that your heart still works. If they love you back you're blessed. And if it lasts a lifetime, well, it's heaven on earth.
2006-10-29 22:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by inpoetry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 cant love to order
2006-10-29 22:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll hun love is complicated actually life is complecated but w/e....you can't force love and even if you love them a lot does not mean they're gonna love you back
2006-10-29 22:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by diamonds_are_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on to someone else.
It is like Why do you give someone a present
Obviously to get one back
Unless you're Jesus
2006-10-29 22:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by poiter1991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋