the current one has so many issuses but he treats me really well but he has no life other then work and home, he gets uptight and weird when he see me going out with my friends yet doesnt want to go along w/ us ive asked. they both have jobs, the current one never finished high school and the ex is in college. I have feelings for both of them and they both have them for me. the ex and i split because he wasnt as ready to move on as he thouhgt he was, we have remaind close friends for 2 years. there both sweet and caring both were good friends of mine before we got in to a relationship. IM just so very confused and need other people oppions ive already asked family and friends and i want to see what you guys have to say... thanks
2006-10-29 14:26:01 · 9 answers · asked by stormieshilo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the current one has a 4 year old child that lives with the mother, his family is crazy, he is very clingy ive talked ot him about it, he is winney when he doesnt get his way, ive talked to him about it and he is trying to work the issues out but im 21 i dont want to have to deal with his issuses. the ex doesnt have issues like this
2006-10-29 14:38:22 · update #1
sounds like niether are ready for kids. Keep playing the field and try not to take either guy too seriously. A million times easier said than done....I know but next time you go out and he refuses to go with you...go on ahead and meet other guys anyways. All is fair in love and war. Until marriage, disease or child that is.
2006-10-29 14:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like u said ur ex wasnt ready n you found someone new give it ago with the current one and if it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out...maybe u should just take a break for a while and really think about what your doing cos in the end u wont know what to do and you might end up losing both so think about it..
2006-10-29 14:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by *LuckyStar* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking this question means that your current bf does not satisfy all your requirements. Maybe thats why the "ex" seems so applealing. I think your problems is that you are grouping the two problems together. I think you need to separate them out.
1. Is my current bf worth staying with? Is he the guy for me? THe one that I can spend the next 60 years of my life with???
2. Second quesiton is, is the ex-bf worth giving a chance???
--> I think if you try and look at it from this angle, you will find your answer more easily.
2006-10-29 14:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go with your gut feeling...im actually in the same position and i think that you should go with your gut...it sounds like your ex could have changed but also remember why you split. the current boy sounds like he has his head and life together and he probably gets uptight because he expects to hang out with you every free moment...WRONG! but, why so many issues??? i understand guys work like crazy but you must think about your future, what you want and you will know who will be able to provide for you...you just have to listen to yourself.
2006-10-29 14:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
List out the pros and cons and how many times each of them have hurt you or done you wrong. Think of which one makes you really happy. Think of the one you truly trust. Who can you see yourself with in the future?
2006-10-29 14:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by lady from the other day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which ever one treats you the best ,it sounds like they both do so i would say your in a pickle.lol
what ever your heart tells you if you have stronger feelings more than the other i would say go that way.i wish i could have been more of a help to you sorry.
good luck you need it.lol
2006-10-29 14:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get back with your EX it may never be the same so beware.
2006-10-29 14:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by dsmiling62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember why hes an EX....
2006-10-29 14:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then choose,past or future?
2006-10-29 14:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋