Should I do this?

Question

He's back with his ex...for the third time.
I'm so tired of waiting around for him to realize he's got a girl who won't publicly humilate him in front of teachers and students biding her time as the friend, the Homecoming date, the one-I -can-talk-too, the one that turns heads...yeah that one.

So, shakira's song La Tortura.
Myfavorite line
"you say you love me like no other/but you can't live on bread alone"

I want to write that line on a piece of paper and underneath it write
"I think it's time you change your diet"
(get it? bread? diet?)

And slip it to him.
What do you think?

Answer 1

so let him be. its his loss. go find a single man cos he aint all that. seriously, he's not the only man in your town surely. and know too that he wont be using condoms.

Answer 2

If he's back with his ex for the third time, and it's not you, well, ask your self this, does he know you like him? Maybe he keeps gettting back with her because he really loves her, or maybe he feels like she gives him some kind of status or something, I really don't know the whole situation. Highschool is like it's own mini-society. I think though that you are a very observant and thoughtful person. Maybe there is an observant and thoughtful guy out there who will notice how special and sensitive you are, maybe it is the guy you are talking about here, but he just hasn't noticed you, or gotten his mind off his ex yet. I think that you shouldn't give him that song lyric, I don't think he would understand it, I struggled to understand it. I think that what you feel is legitimate though. Maybe you should just tell him exactly how you feel, if you are his friend, and "the one he can talk to". I don't think he will turn you away. He may try to make you understand that he still loves his ex, and he can't date you right now, but I think that that is a mature thing to do anyway, no girl deserves to be second best, you know? Anyway ,I hope the best for you!

Answer 3

I feel for you and if you are always there on the receiving end when she dumps him your going to hurt too ... Maybe its time that you are not always there. Maybe if you didn't wait for him and had someone else then it might not hurt you so much.

If he needs to make a change in his diet I think he will be the one that has to figure that one out. He seems to be in a great deal of turmoil but only he can make the decision that needs to be made.
Maybe he will not ever see it the way you do
Time will tell but in the mean time get on with your life and find someone that really cherishes you

Answer 4

I say, take your pain, and get over it. He already knows how you feel. He does not care. Should I repeat that again? HE DOES NOT CARE HOW YOU FEEL! Nothing you write or say means ANYTHING to him. But, if you must express yourself, and you should, write everything you feel down on paper (or the computer). Save it for the next day, and read it. Maybe you will be glad you didn't send it to him. Then, throw it away. The next time you feel bad, do it again. WRITE WRITE WRITE. You will eventually learn something about yourself, and save yourself the embarrassment of being so needy.

Answer 5

I'm with Mrs. Denni-don't lower your standards. There are so many other guys out there. I can't tell you how many times I've done something like that and wanted to slap MYSELF for it after wards!!!! You'll regret doing it. He's immature and he won't get it. Trust me on this one!!!! Find someone else and move on sweety!! He isn't worth it anymore.

Answer 6

No i think that would make you sound immature and he might not get it. if he keeps going with his ex then that clearly tells you who he wants so get over him. move on because there are plenty more where he came from. Don't lower your standards.

Answer 7

i think its time to find a new hobby

Answer 8

Go for it what do you got to lose..........Right

Answer 9

GO FOR IT GIRL.