Theres this guy that ive known for over 6 yrs now.We messed around n hs but it was nothin serious. we both ended up havin our own relationships n life n we would just cross each others path every once n a while n we knew we wanted each other still but we had 2 respect each others relationships.now we are finally together n i care for him alot and im like completely immersed in him but i dont get that same feeling from him.he calls at least 3x's a day so i know he likes me alot but i feel like hes holding back b/c im not pretty.i wasnt even when we dated in high school which is why i think we never took it any further b4.his last gf was very pretty n everyone thinks we look alike except shes pretty w/ it and im not. we've been mistaken for sisters, but shes much prettier.he can get a pretty girl n i feel very insecure b/c i know im not pretty and i know thats whats holding him back. he says he feels good when hes w/me n he can talk 2 me bout anythin.but i catch him lookin @me in disgust
2006-10-29 14:16:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it feels right go for it
2006-10-29 14:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by penny p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't usually call that often or show that much interest if they are not into you. I think that you should stop doubting the fact that he likes you and that he wants to be with you. I believe that you will destroy the relationship that you have with him and he woun't leave you because he thinks that you are "ugly", he will leave you because you are being very negative. Just accept that you have someone that likes you for you. If you cannot do that, then maybe you are not ready for this or any relationship at this time. Good luck. P.S. Do you think that a person would be with a person whom they look at in a disgusting way? He is with you so obviously he does not think that you are disgusting.
2006-10-29 14:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Curious_Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ive been there. maybe ur pretty to him, and thats all that matters. u got to stop puttin urself down or else he might leave u. has it ever crossed ur mind that maybe hes olding back bc he hears u say ur not pretty. maybe hes holding back bc hes not sure if ur happy w/ him. or could love u and that could be scaring him. its not easy for guys to say how they really feel. so stop puttin urself down, do something that makes u feel good bout ur self, and give ur man some time hell come around when the time is right for both of u. and maybe u only think hes lookin at u i disgust bc thats how u feel bout ur self. good luck!!!
2006-10-29 14:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be straight foward and ask him if that is why he is holding back. Trust is an important part of a relationship so u need to trust that u can openly talk to him. Talk and from there it all depends on what he says.
2006-10-29 14:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by mary-jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you lack self confidence and you better build it up or you are going nowhere, i think you are pretty and have a good personality don't worry about anybody else and just think about what you want and what to do and be focus in your future life and do things that make you happy and feels good!
2006-10-29 14:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he looks at you in disgust then he is a jerk --- he should be with you because he likes all of you --- your mind and your body
dont think you are not pretty --- you are and need to find someone that appreciates you
2006-10-29 14:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh good lawdy!! Get off the self pity trip ENJOY!! That someone really likes you for you!!! Never question it,, just enjoy..
2006-10-29 14:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋