I am 30, not destitute but certainly not rich. I am still working on a college degree and am close, but wasted some time in the past few years trying to decide if it was worth the effort. I am intelligent, articulate, and passionate about everything I enjoy. I believe in a God, but am not a bible beater or even go to church very often. No one has ever suggested I am hot, but I am attractive, tall, thin, and clean cut, kinda have a big nose, I am 1/2 German. I am modest and shy by nature, but am not afraid to speak my mind when I need to. (Also if it matters, I am a Cancer) Am I datable?
2006-10-29 14:13:07 · 24 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have found that chemistry is more than just being 'visual eye candy'. We send messages with our body language, choice of words, tone of voice and TIMING, TIMING....
You are as lovable and datable as you perceive yourself to be. Even though you are not a bible thumper, it says in Proverbs that even a fool appears wise when he is a man with few words. Confidence ihleps us to feel seure in our points of view and never have to be oevert about them.
This confidence is like perfume to the right person who takes one look at you. Just wait..........best to hold your tongue until you can picture yourself in the others' shoes (listening to you).
Hope this encourages you.
2006-10-29 14:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by plantbywaters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the kind of person you think you are and what others see may be different. If you establish an honest open relationship with someone then you can ask them how you are or aren't intimidating. Is there time in your life for another person to get to know you or are you just to busy to take the time to work on a relationship?
2006-10-29 22:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by whitehairblueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you get points for being intelligent, and more points for being articulate and passionate--and even more points for believing in God....But since you are 30, you need to become finacially stable. Work on finding a GREAT job after you gradaute. It's not materialistic at all to look for that as a woman, as it is only normal for a woman to look for a man who can support a family (if its marriage you want)...Even if you aren't "Hot", women generally will admire men who are finacially stable, clean, and intelligent--Look, I am only trying to help you out. You also get points for being "clean" and tall. Height is a big bonus..I would tell you to update and invest in a good wardrobe. You dont need Armani suits, but a good clean-cut, polished look will do. New clothes and cologne will upgrade you. Invest in good shoes, as any woman worth her weight in gold knows that you can tell alot about a man from the quality of his shoes...As for not being afraid to speak your mind, thats great...Look, what I'm about to say is very politically incorrect but here it goes: I notice that white women like men who play "hard to get". They like the men who dont try so hard to be with them, so my advise is Be Cool. Play hard to get, look good, get that Great Job, and they'll come..But dont sleep around because thats gross, and you'll only end up with an STD. Just wait until you find "the one", and you'll be aight.
Peace
2006-10-29 22:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are dateable so long as your not married. . everyone, I believe is dateable. I Wonder what would make you think that you might not be.
Do you believe that women are looking for someone that is rich
there are some out there that actually are attracted to a man that has a brain and can speak for himself.
believe in yourself and also allow for seeing what is ahead of you.
I wish that you had written more in regards to have you had difficulties dating? I hope that you have good luck soon
2006-10-29 22:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give enough info. Have you been told you're intimidating? Why would you ask that vs. am I a dork?
Everyone is datable to someone. Give more info if you can.
2006-10-29 22:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You sound like an attractive woman who is very datable. Why are you even asking?
2006-10-29 22:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by mellowemi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur a cancer... all cancer's are dateable!!!! why are u even asking that question? do what u gotta do to finish school. actually speak ur mind dont let ur shyness get in the way... u work hard to get what u have now, so y dont u work hard to get that date... be strong!!! good luck!!!
2006-10-29 22:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by yng53524jae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody's datable unless you're extremely hideous to look at. :] Truth.
2006-10-29 22:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by somethingsovague 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I think you are absolutely datable and not intimidating at all :-)
2006-10-29 22:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperate?
2006-10-29 22:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋