Okay so tonight I was getting a drink at this coffeshop and the girl that worked there was pretty cute and after I left my friends convinced me to go back in and ask her for her number, so I did and I got the number...so what should I do next, should I wait a couple days and then call to see if she wants to hang out or do i send her a little text or somethin...i just dont want it to be awkard...i'm 17 btw
2006-10-29 14:04:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
send her a text 2nite then skip a day and send her another one then ask her out two days after the last text. dont rush it, this shows that you are not so eager for that date. it will give her a cool relaxed opinion about you
2006-10-29 14:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait a couple of days! i hate it when guys play that game, to make us think that whatever they're focusing on right now is way more important than calling a girl when they actually ASKED for her number!! just call her and ask to meet her somewhere casual. Don't take it to seriously. If you approach it more as a friends thing and act like a gentleman, then everything will go just fine.
2006-10-29 22:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.
Since you just left, that means she is probably still at work and will be there until they close. I would call tomorrow night, if you get her voicemail, don't leave a message, try again on Tuesday, and if you get her voicemail again, this time leave her a message and wish her a happy halloween and ask her to call you and let her know how late you'll be up.
Good luck!
2006-10-29 22:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play any games! If you feel like calling her up...call her up. Get the conversation going and the rest comes naturally!
2006-10-29 22:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by lady from the other day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahah-cute.
Call her. You got her number, she expects a call. Simple. No texting. You never know if that may put a lil charge on her phone bill :)
Goodluck
2006-10-29 22:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by kamuishirou24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her tomorrow sometime, but not too early. I wouldn't wait a couple of days, or she may forget who you are.
2006-10-29 22:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a text first and if she respond go from there. a girl is not going to spend time texting somebody she really doesn't wanna talk to, and trust me i know
2006-10-29 22:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Emily F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text! Definitely. Hey, remember me? I'm the guy from the coffeeshop. (Okay you can come up with something more original...)
2006-10-29 22:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by b_blanket119 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her!!! It would be cute and not awkard because you are not face to face!! Girls love that stuff . . .
2006-10-29 22:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by gerb30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait to call. that is a silly rule that guys made up. women want you to call right away. you asked for her # so call.
2006-10-29 22:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋