my bf hasnt been acting the same lately i mean it seems like hes sick of me or something i always ask him whats wrong baby you can tell me anything and he says nothing .. i mean he always looks like hes in deep thought about something but he wont tell me should i be worried??
2006-10-29 13:51:26 · 12 answers · asked by ewillistharealis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him time and space before you push him away for good
2006-10-29 13:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a number of things..but i think that you should sit him down and make him talk...u know even if you bring it up "what if i just give you some space to think about things" sometimes that's all they need is a little time..just back off for a little while..tell him to go out and have a guys night out without any females and u do the same...but then on the other hand there could be nothing wrong at all and he is in deep thought about something..hard to say with the male's..Just try to talk to him ..and if you say that u think that you guys should ahve space and he agrees then Yeah there is something wrong..if he fights for NO..then there is nothign wrong...its hard for us to pinpoint the problem cuase we are not there..the best bet is to just try to keep talking to him and if not move on...
2006-10-29 21:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Newfie_Girl_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be worried.
He's not even TRYING to communicate to you, and that's one of the most important things in a relationship.
You need to let him know, that his silence doesn't help. You need an answer. Tell him exactly what your asking us....that your worried if he's sick of you....that saying nothing and looking deep in thought just brings more assumptions to worry about...
it's what he answers....he better answer after you say this.
My boyfriend gets silent after we talk or argue see, and thing is, he just needs time before he opens his mouth to talk. So it may be like that with him too...give him room to speak.
Goodluck-now make sure your FACE to face with him.
2006-10-29 21:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by kamuishirou24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but yes you should be worried. when someone is in deep thought around you all the time and they don't want to tell you it is usually because they are trying to build up the nerve to tell you something bad. so just try to get him to tell you whats going on. Something is not right.
2006-10-29 22:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your BF has stopped communicating with you, then you may need to take a hard look at whether he is a good BF or not, and make the appropriate decision based upon what you decide.
2006-10-29 21:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by zgraf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a litle get together, make him some dinner or something pleasent, make him feel comfortable, and talk to him kindly about his situation. Let him know you will be open to anything he says... Use the painful line "Are you thinking about breaking up?" only as the last resort if he will not open up..
2006-10-29 21:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up that if won't talk to you that you will assume that he
doesn't want to be around anymore . See what happens at least this way you will know something .
2006-10-29 21:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probobly just getting nevous...give him space for a while...if he stays the same, that may just be the way he is. hope this helps!
2006-10-29 21:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by caseyboyette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, its the cold shoulder of him either thinking about someone else, or being bored with you. Break up with him before he does it first.
2006-10-29 21:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to break up but doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
2006-10-29 21:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋