I was born and raised in Atlanta and I just moved to this town in Virginia and I dont know anyone here...on the first day at my new high school everyone was coming up to me asking me questions and being nice...I did have a lot of friends back home and I thought I was on the track to making new ones....well I didnt know how fake these girls were....alot of boys at my school were really flirting with me and asking me for my number. Some of them has girlfriends and being that Im new I didnt know that...well some of the girls would ask me if I liked some of the boys that were approaching me knowing that they had girlfriends...well they went back to the girls and told them I was trying to steal their man!!! Now I really only talk to the boys b/c the girls dont like me and I really do want girl friends here b/c although the boys are great I know how great it is to have female friends...but I dont want to be fake at the same time because that's just not me....what should I do???
2006-10-29 13:43:19 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dag thats mean ! moved from atlanta to virginia im in va been here all my life and where i live in va people are nosey and back stabbers and jealous if you got something they get mad . but girl you need to set these girls straight they are jealous and they feel threatened by you they know you look good and they know you are turning a few heads thats not your fault you can nt worry about how they feel are what they do there is somebody in that school you can get to know and be friends with besides the up tight b!tches they haten girl all tha boyz looken at you dont give up keep your head up and you be you dont worry about them .
2006-10-29 13:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it must be hard starting out in a new school and all. Trying to make new friends, being in a new place, having all new teachers, etc. I've never been in that situation before, but I can tell you that you don't want to steal other girls boyfriends if you want friends of your own. That is not the way to go about it. Even if they aren't the kind of girls you want to hang around, the other girls you DO want to hang around with, aren't going to think much of you either. I would stay away from the boys that have girlfriends for one thing, OK? Join school clubs, sports or functions you are interested in to meet the kind of friends that may potentially like to be around you. That would be a great way for you to start making GOOD friends!!! OK? I hope this helped and good luck to you honey!!! If people are mean to you, just ignore them. That takes the fun out of it and they will stop. Take care.
2006-10-29 21:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are doing fine --- if the girls dont want to know you thats their problem --- some will be ok and you will find them as time goes
2006-10-29 21:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there , did that. stand up in be counted for. who care if they don't like you, take it from me they never wanted your friendship. in too the guys you the new meat on the market, someone new will move in , you be old news then, so enjoy it while it last.
2006-10-29 21:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by elisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another group of girls who can be your real friends. trust me, high school will be much easier without all the unnecesary drama.
2006-10-29 21:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them.
Acting like it bothers you will just encourage them to continue to act mean.
2006-10-29 21:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find New Friends hun, you do not need the ones you got now
2006-10-29 21:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for them.
2006-10-29 21:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by ya girl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋