We hit it off. HUGE! Have now been dating for almost 6 mos, but she's been real distant lately. Another story altogether. It's hard to see her, she's just one of those people that always has to be doing something (which drives me nuts at times, and is another story, too) so I feel bad trying to pin her down, but I do when I feel like I want to see her. Anyways, saw her Wed night, haven't had sex w/ her in about 2 weeks (and I'm DYING!!!) but saw her birth control still in her purse. I was worried that she was pulling herself out of the relationship for a while, but keep telling myself she would have quit taking it if that were the case. Anybody agree? Assume she's not cheating b/c I fully trust she isn't.
2006-10-29 13:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say being distant is the first sign that her attention is somewhere else.I know you don't think she's cheating, but do you think she misses you? If so say something. I will say if I had a great guy, I would spend every available moment with him, because I had feelings for him. A relationship is like a garden, you must tend to it to make flowers grow. It also takes two committed party's. I think you should have a talk with her, if she's too busy for you then she's too busy for a relationship with you. Remember your just as busy as she is, your a prize catch and she shouldn't take you for granted, she doesn't know what she might be missing. Tell her how you feel, she's lucky to have such a committed guy like you in her life.
2006-10-29 13:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am on birth control and I don't want to have sex all the time. Most girls don't want sex as much as guys, that's a fact. I do stuff all the time too, I hate sitting down, relaxing, cuddling, I just need to be moving. Find something for you two to do together. See if things get better, instead of watching a movie, go outside and play a game. Talk to her and tell her how you feel, it never hurts anything and maybe she can change somethings that she didn't even realize she was doing
2006-10-29 13:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpeaberry42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she's still taking her birthcontrol doesn't mean a thing. I mean, whether or not she is continuing her birth control is really an odd and unreliable way to try to judge her intentions!!!
Did she begin taking the birthcontrol when you started dating specifically just as a contraceptive? Many take it to make regulate periods or for other hormonal benefits, if that's the case she'll stay on it with you or not. Also, if I were to be leaving a relationship I was unhappy with I certainly wouldn't stop taking my birth control!! Many women who are sexually active have a bad habit of rebounding just like men do , and will have one night stands to increase their self-esteem or as a poor attempt to get over the last boyfriend.
I'm sorry I don't have something really inspiring to say. =(
2006-10-29 13:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation if it is hard to pin her down. As for the birth control, be pleased she is taking it. However I took birth control for years even when I wasn't getting any - just in case something came along I would be ready. Sound more like you two need to sit down and talk if you aren't sure where the relationship is going. She must like you if she keeps coming back for more. Maybe she is trying to clear up some stuff so she can have more time with you. I can't answer that for her, but please talk to her in the meantime!!!
2006-10-29 13:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you don't start and stop the pill according to when you want to have sex. It's an everyday thing either way. Takes 30 days to get into your system good so it would be pointless to take it only when you have sex.
Second you need to talk to her and find out what's going on. There is no point in being in a relationship if you're in it alone.
2006-10-29 13:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she stop taking birth control IF she was pulling back from you? That's foolishing thinking on your part. I'm not saying she is cheating on you, don't get me wrong. If she's not making time for you, I would think that she is pulling back from you! When your in a relationship you want to be in, you make sure you make time to spend with your partner. That's only my opinion.
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2016-10-16 13:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push it buddy. Give her some space, call her once or twice a day or so. She's got stuff to do. Don't loose touch though.
Two weeks? That's nothing.. You'll be turning into a horny rabbit and she might not like that.
2006-10-29 13:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to communicate. Stay out of bed long enough to have a conversation. Without communication, this relationship will not last.
2006-10-29 13:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she quit taking them?, so she could get pregent by someone else. That wouldn't be a great way of hiding it.
2006-10-29 13:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋