Okay so last night i was at this carnival for little kids and some kids from my school were helping run the haunted house there. Well towards the end of the haunted house theres this closet were kids sit down and they think they are almost out but then theres some guy that jumps out and grabs them. Well a lot of the kids got freaked out. So i put my head in the closet to tell the person back there to stop because he was scaring to many kids. But when i did someone pulled me in( it was pitch black i couldnt see anything) and pulled me close to him and forced his tongue into my mouth and started rubbing my butt.... i tried to get away but he wouldnt let go of me. Finally after like 10 minutes he let go. I was horrified. I dont even know who it was. Im afraid to tell my boyfriend. Do you think i should?
2006-10-29 13:36:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, i didnt like it i didnt even see who the freakin person was
2006-10-29 13:39:47 · update #1
it is possible for him to be my boyfriend but i highly doubt it
2006-10-29 14:09:18 · update #2
Well yes if he can handle it, but your 1st obligation is to yourself.
Honey, you were SEXUALLY ASSAULTED. That is an offence that should be reported to the Police. It's called 2nd degree SEXUAL BATTERY where I come from. You need to find out who this guy is & have him held accountable. What if your attacker has an STD? How many others did he pull that stunt with before he got to you, & how many more will suffer the same kind of attack if he isn't stopped?
You need to find out, & be tested for STD's BEFORE you are intimate with your Bf or ANYBODY ELSE.
2006-10-29 13:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes you should tell your boyfriend b/c that person had no right to do that to you that is taking something from you that was not being offered and so i think that you need to find him so that he cant do that to some other person and if he did that to you we don't know if some other Little kids had the same thing happen to them ( and just for our information were was your boyfriend and do you know that it was not him playing a joke on you or testing you)
2006-10-29 13:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, that this happened to you is a problem but could you imagine if this happened to any of those kids too ???? This thing might be worse than you think. I would not only tell my boyfriend but i would tell whoever is running that carnival because those kids could be in trouble if there's some paedophile out there....
2006-10-29 13:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by dd 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
skip that I would tell the cops too while ya at it.. but I think that you should tell your boyfriend I mean you didn't do nothing wrong.. but some guys... they probably would find a way to get tick off.. so there is a 50 50 chance but me being me I would tell him.. oh and the cops.. did I forget to mention COPS.. I mean come on someone just sexually hassarass you and all your going to do is just ask for advice on the internet.. gurl tell ya man and while ya at it the cops tell them what happen where it happen... etc.. good luck..
2006-10-29 13:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by latasha 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well the best thing is that you should, but is your boyfriend the type of guy who would get mad at that ?I would be scared to but maybe your boyfriend can help you out.
2006-10-29 13:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u should 1st thing did u call the police if u didnt then u need to call them so they can find out who it was and if u dont then u like it what happen that the way i look at it sorry
2006-10-29 13:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by terry m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have lit his @ss up! Thats horrible! You should have called the police. I know its bad to keep things but I wouldnt tell my boyfriend. Since you dont know who it was its only going to piss him off because there is nothing he can do about it.
2006-10-29 13:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by dsgg 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should really talk to the princaple at the school and tell them what happened they should have a list of who was taking care of what and the times then you would no whao it was who done this to you and get something done about it and tell your bf what happened and tell hime what your gonna do about it
2006-10-29 13:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should tell him. you did nothing wrong, someone else did and he should understand this, also he's gonna wanna kick that persons ***, and he'll find out who it was for you. tell him to be sneaky, get him to talk to the people that work with you and get him to ask around smooth like saying 'that chicks hot i'd like to make out with her' bam...and really its scary i know but you didnt do anything wrong, whoever did it needs an *** kicking
2006-10-29 13:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by thell666 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes! u should be totally honest with him!
but tell him it wasn't intentional and u didn't even know who the guy was.
that way if he's mad, it'll cool him down a little
hope i helped!
=)
p.s. how do u put those little heart thingies next to ur name???
sorry it's just i always see people do that and it bugs me cuz i don't know how!!! =)
2006-10-29 13:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by feyminist 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋